HELP me PLEASE?

Question

please tell me top tips on how to fall out of love with someone.... she dont want me no more, and truth be told i'm really struggling with this......its now been 58 days and i still wake up everyday with her name on my lips... should i still feel like this...or am i crazy?

anak?....greater and more significant ?...there is nothing greater and more significant

get laid?...lol.... like im interested

Answer 1

forgetting someone is really difficult but actually why would you want to forget her... she's a part of you.. a part of your dreams, a part which you cant erase, instead of forgetting her why would you forgive her.. learn to live without her, learn to live your life with someone else.. someone who could love you beter than she does.. someone who would love you forever... it isnt the end of the world when she left you, its a start of something much better, remember that nothing is constant, people come and people go, but the good part is, those people made a mark in your life that helps you to be the better you...

you shouldnt feel like that if you already get over your past.. but it takes time to heal.. take your time... but as much as possible do other things that will entertain you... you're crazy.. yeah! we are all crazy! we are fool in terms of love!

Answer 2

I dont think that you are crazy at all. Its terrible when a relationship ends. You cant make yourself fall out of love its just going to take time. It might seem like she is the only thing in the world that matters, and im not going to patronise you by saying that she isnt because right now, to you she probably is. It will be easier though, trust me, coming from someone that knows.
I really would not consider being with someone else for a little while though because you would just be trying to prove to yourself that you are over your ex and your clearly not. This would not be fair on you or the girl you chose to date.
Get support from your family and friends, everyone has been through a bad experience like this so im sure they will sympathise with you.
As for the future im sure you will go on to make someone really happy. You sound like a sweet guy so just take some time out for yourself, spoil yourself a little and gradually move on with your life.
Good luck and I hope you feel better soon x

Answer 3

You want to hear a sad story?? All through my senior years at school (15+), then after I left I had a boyfriend who I was on and off with for about 5 years. Every time one of us was with someone else, we'd want each other back. Even when I met my hubby 2 B and got serious, I still thought of this guy so much and missed him. You know how it stopped? He died. 3 years ago. Seriously, it was only once hed gone that I could move on, sometimes people just get your heart and dont let go. Good luck

Answer 4

I'm sorry but a heart takes a long time to heal the only thing you can do is take it day by day it will eventually stop hurting as much try to get out with your friends and keep active it will be those lonely days when you are by yourself that hurt the most and you are NOT crazy it is completely normal to feel like that after a breakup best of luck to you

Answer 5

yes you need to focus on some thing that you like to do alot.occupy yourself doing something so you dont think about her. go out on some nature walks,get into some kind of sport. women arent every thing.look at what you have in your life other than something you dont have or can not have.it is very hard to fall out of love. you may even love her for the rest of your life but that doesnt mean it can be you and her as one.some things you love so much you have to let go cuz it isnt healthy for you!!if it helps it doesnt sound like she is mourning too much so why should you?i know easier said then done!! good luck my friend, it takes time

Answer 6

Rejection is a hard one to get over, ain't that the truth! let's face facts though..she's not the one for you is she? If she was there would be no drama here and there's nothing quite unrequited love for a bit of drama. Looking at this positively though it should be fair to say that you are now one step closer to the one you 'should' be with! She's out there y'know, wandering about looking for you to appear. This is just a painful event which will pass in time.
There IS someone out there who will value you greatly, trust me on this!!

Answer 7

I say go on holiday with a bunch of your friends, abroad where it will be nice and warm and loads of girls.
This will give you time to relax and enjoy yourself, go out and meet new people and hopefully start the process of getting over your ex.
When you come back you will hopefully be all nice and tanned and go out and start enjoying and feel good about yourself, theres no point waiting or thinking about someone when they don't feel the same way about you, i know it's hard but the sooner you start meeting other people the sooner you will forget about your ex
good luck
(oh and a good place to go on holiday is ayia napa in cyprus woo hoo)

Answer 8

some answers on here never cease to amaze me.
time im afraid is the only answer and that is a long process.
your heart and your head will probably feel like there at war at the moment.
no you are certainly not crazy and yes im afraid you are feeling perfectly normal if painfully sad feelings.
im sorry to repeat but time is the only answer
mike

Answer 9

I know it's horrible to split up with someone when it's not your decision. Spend lots of time with friends and get yourself out and about to new places, meet new people. Eventually you will meet someone else and you'll still have your fond memories of the old relationship, but you will be making new memories with a new partner.

Answer 10

Your not crazy but it will take time. Try to keep busy and to avoid places where you may run into her, going cold turkey is about the only way to deal with it...I know this sounds crap but it will get better with time, prob not the answer you want but its about the only one that will work