My boyfriend and l split at the weekend because my family said they would throw me out if l didn't dump him, they didn't like him when they found we were sleeping together 2 months into the relastionship (l'm 19, he's my one and only) we were seeing each other for 9 months. We miss the sex together and have agreed to meet up next week for a bunk up. Were not together any more, does having sex with him make me look cheap?
2006-06-07 23:03:02 · 11 answers · asked by London girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To Geoff M:
You don't know my parents!
2006-06-07 23:18:14 · update #1
hell no it not cheap if u still got feelings 4 him, u were made 2 dump him it wasnt ur choice. go 4 it sam if u love him ignore ur parents i did wen they didnt like my ex gf xxx
2006-06-07 23:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 11⤊ 8⤋
Dont worry about what makes you look cheap, but instead what makes you feel cheap. If you love him you should be dating, secretly or not if you dont then what is the point? There are plenty more fish in the sea and remember a girl isnt limited any more to a man. Every girls best friend should be her battery opperated friend and trust me few men can match up to the thrill of that. Take Care
2006-06-07 23:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by Donna M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are 19 and you have all the right to fall inlove and do what you want....Your parents are just concern. They think that at your age, you should be busy with your studies.... You see, parents like boys whom they can trust...They just couldnt trust him...They have all the reasons not to because as you said, you were doing it already with him....See the issue here is trust and respect and you and your bf just dont understand what it means...
2006-06-07 23:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by bea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is you being so dependent on your parents at 19.
If there's no way you cand be more independent that you'll just have to take the risk and lie to them!
Take Donna M's advice - she's HOT! :-)
2006-06-07 23:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by Nefeco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't said WHY your parents objected to him. I can't see that you having sex with him at your age is a reason for their disapproval.
2006-06-07 23:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by Geoff M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is what you want to i dont see the problem, but if you are hoping for more than just sex then dont let him use you.
2006-06-07 23:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by karen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on you. if you are comfortable with that knowing the fact that you'll never go back to him, then i guess it's ok
but if you are asking this question, it shows that deep down inside you know that you are doing something wrong.
if you are going to go to him only to have fun i feel it's not right.
2006-06-07 23:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by ninu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont you think you sell your self bit short. aim higher. you still young...there is a better man waiting for you outside. and listen to your familly. there is a strong reason why your familly didn`t like him. good luck
2006-06-07 23:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by pumpkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no way to look cheap if nobody knows.
If you have fun having sex, than cheapness will not harm you
2006-06-07 23:08:05 · answer #9 · answered by rakovica.blinks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, just a bit of fun. Friends with benefits.
2006-06-07 23:11:27 · answer #10 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with karen totally
2006-06-07 23:12:49 · answer #11 · answered by Tekken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋