My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and a half years and are serious and have always been honest with each other. We have taken several breaks from each other in that time. Just recently though he was going to see his brother for the weekend and just wanted to go by himself. I got upset with him, and said,"Why don't you want me to go? then I got emotional and said" If you wanted to break up with me, why didn't you just say so? When 2 people love each other they usualy want to be together. I'm just going to go on with my life and when you want to be with me give me a call." After that I left another message on his phone that said, don't pay attention to the last message, I was feeling insecure and it had nothing to do with you. Two days later he met a girl, (he needed somewhere to live, so he said he would be her roomate. But she wanted to have sex with him, so he took her away to the family get together and they got a motel. He thought we had broken up. We're back butI hurt.
2006-06-07 22:03:46 · 5 answers · asked by nancygirl1953@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ouch. I am sorry for you. In relationships, people don't always want to spend all of their time together. What is interesting about our comments is that after 2 years the "honeymoon" phase of infatuated love is over. So the real relationship starts, and this is when most relationships fall apart. I don't know if I would get over the fact that he slept with someone within moments of the two of you have a possible break up. You need to talk to him and figure out what is really going on.
2006-06-07 22:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by djk 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men are men, they are hunters and it's too easy for him to say "but I thought we broke up", if he was so in love with you, he would of stayed to work this thing through with you, not so? Instead he flutters off with a girl to a motel..... WAKE UP girl and tell him to head for the hills, you deserve a better man who will truly love and respect you.
2006-06-08 05:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by tracy v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was letting you down easy, when he was going without you, but after he tried to be with some one else he realized what he was missing,he will do it again, so if you can handle it again stay, but you had better move on, he did it once he will do it again!
2006-06-08 05:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, its over, if you continue there will only be more pain, don't put yourself through it.
2006-06-08 05:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by daniel a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby get rid of him he is an ***
2006-06-08 05:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by brandy baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋