I am not joking. I would like some serious advice.
2006-06-07 20:13:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is usually harder for guys to get a girlfriend than it is for girls to latch on to a boyfriend. This is because girls are just pickier than guys. For all those who are unlucky in the love (or lust) department, follow these steps to become Mister Smooth.
Steps
Get to know her first. There's no point in going up to a girl you barely know and asking her out. It won't work. Even if it does, it's asking for a breakup.
Appearance is key. Clean up for a high class city girl. Dress down for the fun loving motorbike chick.
Be funny. Girls love to laugh because they know smiling makes them look prettier.
Keep up a good posture, walk steadily and smile. Women do not like slouchers. Bad posture gives an air of unconfidence. Smiling makes a guy more welcoming. A good walking style, (straight back, a hand in the pocket and taking well distanced strides) gives the impression of intelligence.
Talk. Silent guys are as annoying as peas.
Look and touch. Looking into a girl's eyes shows respect and interest. A firm handshake, a gentle pat on the back, a light touch of the hand and other subtle gestures allow the girl to feel connected with the guy.
Feel great. The feeling will radiate and affect the lady too.
Don't pretend to be someone you aren't, you may think you will win her round with it but in the end it will backfire, find a common interest, something you both like. if she likes a band and you don't, don't be afraid to tell her, she'll admire your honesty.
Tips
Put on great smelling aftershave or cologne. Research the best selling ones at department stores. A good scent really turns a woman on.
Guys do not need to look like Brad Pitt to find a girlfriend. Just keep hair, teeth and nails clean and neat. Ladies are quick to notice little details especially in the hands and faces.
Be a good conversationalist. Read up on the latest in politics, entertainment, arts and even sports news. Women love a well informed man. It makes him look well-educated and, therefore, richer in every aspect.
Do listen to the lady before responding. Women do not like to be cut off. They like to be considered and feel important.
Do pay on the first drink, first date, first taxi cab ride, etc. It makes a gentleman out of a man.
Most importantly, offer to walk or drive the lady home (or anywhere she wants to go). This makes the man seem sincerely concerned for her well-being.
Don't annoy you girl by texting her every night. If she texts you, reply but unless you have something to say then don't text. It gets annoying when someone keeps texting you saying "i <3 u".
Don't be unsubtle. Yet it is important not to be so obtuse as to be unreadable.
Warnings
Do not stalk the lady!
Grinning like the Cheshire cat is creepy.
Taking over the entire conversation is over-bearing and rude.
Do not insist relentlessly on an offer when the lady has turned it
down. It may be that she has no use for or does not feel good about the suggestion. Pushing her to accept will only increase the possibility of rejection.
2006-06-07 20:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if there is a girl out there that you like. You should start by introducing youslef inless you know her know her. frist ask her if she wants to go to the movie's or do something with you later. Just be yourslef be polite, be sweet comment her, be a gentleman, humor her, talk about anything don't let her get bored. Well i don't know but me being a female i'am more romantic i like candelight dinner, roses, poems, songs. but that me. Just be yourslef #1 rule. It takes time to have a girlfriend so just be patient. well i hope this helps I and i hope you find what your looking for.Good luck.
2006-06-07 20:39:52 · answer #2 · answered by k1ss_m3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a girl you would like to be a friend, talk - date and who knows - you may be in with a chance...
Get her to talk about herself. Remember Trust is a very important aspect in any relationship...
2006-06-07 20:16:43 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Wings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like it when the guy talks to me first and isn't obnoxiously groping. clubs or parties are great opportunities to show your good side b/c you can be the one guy who shows the girl you want to talk rather than just feeling her up. i met my current bf at a party, and noticed him right away b/c he came and danced w/ me but didn't try to touch me at first. then b/c i wasn't drinking that night, he said he would stay sober too. we went and had some amazing conversation. afterwards it was cold outside so he gave me his coat. i thought that was so sweet. do something unusual like that for a girl at a place where its unexpected like a hardcore club, and she will definitely fall for u. girls like smart, sexy, confident men who respect them but also excite them. be creative!
2006-06-07 20:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by vhershie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get off the computer and go out there. the best way to get a girl is being yourself unless you are a psycho then just stay home at your computer or get some help.
2006-06-07 20:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by the a.m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Russian ebay site
best bet
2006-06-07 20:16:38 · answer #6 · answered by satnee2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Propose some cute pretty girl. If she says yes the its ok and if she slaps u then it is no from her side
2006-06-07 20:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by greatbuddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe you can get the girl you want and be yourself, sound easy because if you do that to stuff it is easy
2006-06-07 20:24:07 · answer #8 · answered by Martino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Get a friend, fall in love with her, then date so she will fall in love with you.
2) Date someone from school, work, church, etc..
2006-06-07 20:26:56 · answer #9 · answered by Joey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be really sweet to girls and let them know you like them and do nice things for them. And dont mess with the bitchy materialistic girls.
2006-06-07 20:25:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋