Ok so basically right now i am in a sitiuation that many of you have probably been in at one point or another in your life. So whats going on is that i have these really strong feelings for this one girl who is amazing, however, she says that shed probably like me if her best friend didnt like me because she doesnt want to feel like she is stealing me away.Also, she kinda has some feelings for another guy, but they are slowly fading because it appears that he may be a dick. Anyways, with her best friend, i seem to also have feelings for her, though not as strong as the original girl. So basically i would like to get some advice on whether or not i should give, her friend a chance, since i do have some feelings for her, or should i take a chance and wait around for the first girl.
2006-06-07 19:25:53 · 10 answers · asked by neo_uni613 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you like the first girl, try a relationship with her. If her friend is second choice, that's not a good way to start a relationship. However, if the first girl won't date you because her friend likes you, I guess it's impossible for you to date with her?
Well, these things usually don't turn out well. Sometimes friendships break up over this kind of thing. If you date the second girl, the other girl will still know she was your first choice and that you have feelings for her. If she has feelings for you, it may make it awkward between her and her friend to see you guys together.
If you have feelings for both of them, things can get REALLY weird. Maybe it's best to find a new girl outside of these two, alltogether.
2006-06-07 19:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by Elisa-chan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stick with the 'original' one and not lead on the second girl. I say lead on because you're not sure if you really like her and most likely you'll be looking more at the 'original' one. This will cause so much problems for the 'original' girl that she will end up not being around when you are there with or without her friend.
2006-06-07 19:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by sakura4eternity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not so easy to take a quick desicion. you think for a while and decide whom you love really. then tell the other the thruth about whom you love. they may feel bad but that will be ok. these situations are not so easy. try this. tell the original that you have told her best friend that you dont love her . if she beleives, then really go and tell her best f.. if she tells she dont want you then dont tell her bestfriend you dont love her but tell you dont love the original and you love her only. but after all this you jast cant change your desicion in the middle. thats why decide what to do at the starting.
2006-06-07 19:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by MelodyMoon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, your best shot is to go for her best friend it seems, or you'll have to keep far away from her best friend and then stay low and wait for the first girl - for some time maybe. She told you how she feels and she'll need the time for her friend to relax.
2006-06-07 19:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends with the girl that you like and really get to know her as a friend 1st and then you will be able to make your decision...
2006-06-07 19:27:52 · answer #5 · answered by Brookey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If these two gals live with in shouting distance from each other be nice to one and then date the one that your all hots about. but if you have the knowledge to discontinue their phone service .well, then date them both...what have you got to loose ...other than your virginity.?
2006-06-07 19:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by Angus. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never wait for train , bus , and girls: one goes another come
2006-06-07 19:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by Beachboy21_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you say.... menage-a-trois....? Naw me neither.... screw the french..... threesome dude!
If you pull it off, your my hero..... if you get slapped, you a dumbass for even thinking of such a thing.
He he he he
2006-06-07 19:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by michael_lovin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just tell your 1st-choice-girl that you like her & want her...that's pretty simple
2006-06-07 19:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nail them both and chose then !!!
2006-06-07 19:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by quiet times 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋