I always think everyone is better than me and there life is so much better than mine and that i'm pathetic. I always see someone i'm jealous of, and i wish that i was them. Anyone else feel like this?
2006-06-07 18:54:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Sometimes that kind of feelings are needed to show us that we're imperfect so we can improve our lives better. But if you think about it constantly it will hurt yourself. Remember that God has given diffrent talents for each and everyone. So my friend, start look inside you and see that you're precious and unique....You might never know that maybe some people out there are envy of your talents or.... Head up!!!! Smile :D
2006-06-07 19:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by Angely A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are actually better than me (physically, mentally or monetarily)....I am not the best person in this world.....I am wise enough to know that....
But this is also true that I am better than a lot of other people (physically, mentally or monetarily)....I can't be the worst person on this earth....
This world is full of humans that look perfect superficially.....but you don't know what's going on inside !
Many beautiful people are suffering from some skin diseases.....and Many rich people are actually suffering heavy debts.....and Many body builders are suffering from some ailments.
Besides that....we should also realise that these bold and beautiful people have paid heavy price for their present status...
"To make foot prints on the sand of time, you have to walk and just not sit at a corner."
Actually...this feeling of inferiority is good upto some extent....because only then we will strive to be better.....try making someone happier today and you will start feeling a lot better..... I promise.
2006-06-07 19:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by earthwaterfireairsky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is not healthy to compare yourself to others. I am quite sure that you have as many good qualities as everyone else and that you can make your life as interesting as you choose. Having the awareness that you are jealous and beating yourself up is a great place to start changing the way you regard self. What do you want to do? What do you want to change? Why not start loving the unique person you are?
2006-06-07 19:08:43 · answer #3 · answered by joyful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to think that way.No matter how much money you have or what type of job a person has does not make anyone any one better.Each person on this earth is unique in their own way.Be Proud of who you are .We were all born on this earth for a reason and that reason is because god wanted you here.I used to think about all the things i couldn't have .It's a waste of time worrying about things like that.Focus more on what you do have and try not to compare yourself to others.You are here in this world and that's the best gift you can have.YOU ARE SPECIAL!
2006-06-07 20:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by stacey b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not normal to think every one is better than you.. You have very low self esteem.. Some where along the line you have lost yourself, and you need to set down and find yourself.. we are all worth being here, and no one is any better than the other person.. we are all great people.. No one is better than you are.. You are the best person that there is.. All people are created equal.. it is what we do with our lives that makes us different.. So get out there and make your life worth something !! You are worth it.. Good Luck !!
2006-06-07 19:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by nannyj37 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to think that way....but everyone is f*cked up in their own way. The world is filled with really stupid people. Give yourself some credit. Plus, if you think that, people can see that, and they'll treat you like sh*t and walk all over you. Don't let them.
2006-06-08 10:25:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hullo
no it is abnormal to think like that,it reflects poor self image and low self esteem which might be a symptoms of depression or some personality problem (inadequate type).
anyhow if it really taunt you,then you should have some psychological advice.
Dr.solo
2006-06-07 19:15:04 · answer #7 · answered by baghdadcatcash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal only if it lasts no more than a week after that it becomes chronical
2006-06-07 18:59:51 · answer #8 · answered by stellasteph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the one who should look in the mirror and say don't you ever die tiger the world can't live without you.
2006-06-08 01:09:55 · answer #9 · answered by grayladygranny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes i feel like that .i think that perhaps you like myself lack self esteem.i wouldn't worry too much as they may feel like that themselves
2006-06-07 22:44:49 · answer #10 · answered by meggsjosey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋