So there's this guy at work that I'm interested in, he seems interested too, hes been flirting a bit. I talked to him today a little bit more than i usually do, I really wanted to ask him if he's single, but I chickened out. but i dropped 2 MAJOR hints that I'm not doing anything tomorrow, when he said that he's not doing anything either, and he didnt seem to catch on to my hint that I was hoping he would ask me out. Is he just clueless? why didn't he ask me out? he seems interested. help!
2006-06-07 18:47:44 · 10 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask him out, there is nothing hotter than a gal who knows where she stands on a relationship and who isn't afraid to take the first step. Don't worry as long as you dont do it all slutty he won't see you as a whore. Good luck!
2006-06-07 18:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by Slifer! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's only two options. 1: He didn't get the hints yet. 2: he's not interested.
If I was in your situation, i tried to show and express myself more, I mean you have to spend more time talking to him in order to make him inters ted in you, and then you need to be a careless person, so you switch the situation, let him getting close to you, boys really likes the girls that don't give a damn to them, and then, when he interested in you, you can catch him with just a small hint !
2006-06-07 18:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gets your hints, but your at work. The difference between sexual harrasment and flirting is attraction, he doesnt want to gum up his work life with a relationship, since he could lose his job for "creating a hostile work enviornment" if it doesnt work out. NEVER date inside the workplace.
2006-06-07 19:13:54 · answer #3 · answered by wrf3k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should go up to him and ask him if he wuld like to have a drink with you one night. After saying that he will realise for sure that you like him.
2006-06-07 18:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was interested in you he would have asked you out. He didn't, so he's not interested. Acknowledge and move on.
2006-06-07 18:59:08 · answer #5 · answered by comfort eagle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is getting your hints, trust on that ... he just is not intersted. What part of no do you not understand?
2006-06-07 18:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hook up with his boss, and afterward go tell him about it and tell him how much you would've wished that it could've been him... but that ship has sailed.
It'll drive him wild with desire for you.
2006-06-07 18:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by jackmack65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out
2006-06-07 18:49:16 · answer #8 · answered by boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then ask him yourself, you're not in high school anymore.
2006-06-07 18:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by jeg2315 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to him more, Yes he is shy, He likes you more than you think, try to take this slow/
2006-06-07 18:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by Stinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋