i was 16 when my sister boyfriend came into my room he was 36 and we slept together for over 7m i told her that it happen and she cover it up now our mom knows and she does beliee me should i tallk to her again or stop talking to her she pick him over me and she my sister. why is she mad at me he rap me not me rap him what should i do mom out there i am now 17 help me
2006-06-07 18:06:51 · 14 answers · asked by angel20ph 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
first of all i want to say i am sorry this happened to you. your room and your home should be a safe place. It doesn't sound like yours is.
I don't know if your Mom will do the hard thing, the right thing here or not.... but she should forbid him to come into her home ever again. this does not mean she is forbidding your sister to be there but her boyfriend cannot be there! you are a teenager who does not need to be solicited, seduced, raped or whatever it was by a grown man old enough to be your father! she needs to keep him out!
second of all... it sounds like your sister is not mature enough or aware enough to do the right thing. i can tell you that if my boyfriend raped, slept with or even seduced my teenage sister he would be out of my life so fast he wouldn't know what hit him. i'm sorry that your sister cannot make the right choice and that she is not supporting you.
unfortunately it sounds like your family situation is not stable, secure or safe... not when an older man can come into your room and have his way with you and no one at the very least(!) boots him out! ugh. this make me mad.
you really do need some outside help on this. i hope you will consider. do you have a counselor at school that you can talk to? if not, ask your counselor for a resource on someone you can talk to. in our area there is a teen center as well and they are an awesome resource and would be able to hook you up with someone..... then go and talk to this person. you really really need someone to talk to because you aren't getting the support you need and deserve at home! you have nothng to be ashamed of.... the stuff going down at home is not your fault! it is so easy to fall into that place where the perpetrator and those covering up for him want you to fall... into the place of thinking maybe you did something wrong, maybe you contributed to it...
the thing is he is 36!!!!!!!!! he is a grown man and you are a teenager. he ought to know better!!!!!! no matter what this is not your fault!
please get help. some other ideas are a youth pastor, young life, a teacher you relate to????? if you email me i'd be happy to help you find someone to talk to in your area. be strong and do this for you!!!!!!!!!!!! talk to someone outside your family.
2006-06-07 19:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by rhythm4soul2 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he raped you then you did not sleep together, it is rape, make sure you call it that. If you are 16 and he is 36 that is against the law and your mom should know about this and you can contact the authorities too. You sister is not too smart and does not want to deal with what is real, that her boyfriend is a sick pervert who is a rapist. Forget your sister, take care of yourself and do whatever you need to do for you and the baby.
2006-06-07 18:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jerry Springer
2006-06-07 21:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ♥MzPretty♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if you slept with him for over 7 months thats not rape. if it was it should of only happened once if you didnt want it. i think thats just an excuse. im sorry but i think at age 16 you know what youre doing i know i did and im 29 yr now. i think you wanted to hurt youre sister or prove a point. but dont feel sorry for yourself now. you allowed this to happen noe deal with it.
2006-06-07 18:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by charilemo1234589 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man I am saying this for the billionth time. Call the police immediately after the rape because you at least have evidence. Your sister is messed up. Cut her out of your life. Care for those who care about you.
2006-06-07 18:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by The One Truth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you saying is true and I believe it is. I'm truly sorry for your circumstances.
Get out of there he's a pedophile and they are enabling him with no regard to your safety and well being. Go stay with another family member.
Give they baby up for adoption and contact the authorities.
2006-06-07 18:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by Stacy L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Raped? well Police sound good to me!
he is 36 you were 16 that is statutory rape and he is a pedophile...call the police and get yourself some help!
AND YOUR SISTER IS SICK TOOOO, especially if she knew!
2006-06-07 18:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by Merisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not RAP......RAPE.did u guys sleep 2gather or were u raped.it cant b rape now b/c u regret it.at 16 u knew what u were doing.y did u let it happen?was it forced?ur sis should know by now.
2006-06-07 20:03:48 · answer #8 · answered by georgemi74 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey you should talk to your mom again she probably is mad cause you were 16 and he is older and your sisters guy, but you let it on for 7mt not wise, if not try to talk to someone who can help
2006-06-07 18:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by C B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you people real, or is this a bad rehearsal for Jerry Springer?
2006-06-07 18:09:09 · answer #10 · answered by powhound 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋