when he found out i asked him again who he liked these past 5 years and he then said no one. What should i do? i know i will never like another guy except him! Give me a short but explanitive paragraph on what i should do and i will choose you as the best answerer.
2006-06-07 17:46:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well this is hard. maybe he was just flirting with you. or maybe he really likes you. i dont know. try talking to him again.and see what he says.but when you talk to him make sure he is alone.cause when he is not alone he may be a jerk. so talk to him when he is alone.just be real close friends and then start getting closer.and pray. good luck girl!!! and if he doesnt like you i am pretty sure there are damn good guys better than him out there.also if he says no then he is missing out on a great girl!!and girl you dont need him. but he is the guy you really like so it is not going to be easy to get over him so try your best to get him but if it doesnt work then there is plenty of guys. but i think it is going to be hard to get him cause he has a chick.Good luck!!i know what you are going threw i have been there before and it sucks
2006-06-07 17:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Varsity =] 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never say never. There are plenty of guys out there and there is no need to waste time on a man that doesn't care about you. It's hard to say whether or not he was lying the first time or the second time that you asked him, but it may be that he was trying to be nice and to flatter you by saying that he liked you, and then after thinking about it decided to be honest with you and not lead you on.
On the other hand that could be reversed, he could have been honest with you and then dishonest later.
I say move on and don't waste your time with him, especially since he has a girl friend. If he really liked you and you showed interest, which you did by ask him that, then he'll come around. But the most important thing is to be happy and enjoy life.
2006-06-07 17:53:30 · answer #2 · answered by SmilingG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him go. There are way too many guys out there, believe me I know and have felt what you are going through. If you dont you will just get obsessed and infatuated with him and do things you will regret later.. Not only that but he has a girlfriend. Think of it as if YOU were the girlfriend. You wouldnt want some other girl to take your man. But what does this say about the guy you like? If he is capable of cheating on his current girlfriend he is capable of cheating on you as well. You know what they say "What goes around, comes around"
2006-06-07 17:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by babydoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It already being 5 years. Time past, people will change. Like and love is totally different. Since he already choose another girls to be his girlfriend, that mean he just like you not falling in love with you in the first place. Move on, you will meet a better guy....
2006-06-07 17:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by SA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look chuchi, you being a stupid ***** alright. You ****** off five years when you could of been gettin your fish and grits licked and for what?? This dude, what has done for you lately, other than lead you on. I suggest you take off time for you missy. Go somewhere and work on Chuchi. If you waited five years for this guy who hasn't given the time off day, you'll certainly be a good no wait GREAT girlfriend to someone who wants and deserves you. Which I promise you'll find it way more gratifying than waiting unknowly. Your welome.
2006-06-07 17:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by darryl_darks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 09:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by overbay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Churchi it is obvious that you have a crush on him and maybe he does not know it. If he has made a commitment to his girlfriend (engagement, etc) then it is better to respect his choice otherwise ask him and let him decide. What ever happens please don't allow yourself to become the other woman and also accept this his choice. Goodluck you never know unless you give it a go!
2006-06-07 17:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by Tom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold on as long as it takes because you never know how long the girlfriend will last but to insure that she gets lost soon type up a note about all the bad habits he has and stick it in her locker or give it to someone and have them give it to her
2006-06-07 17:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by spiritwalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to get over him. I am going though that too.
2006-06-07 17:52:00 · answer #9 · answered by Murdoch! =D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but get over him if he likes you he'll come crawling to you
2006-06-07 17:48:56 · answer #10 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋