what should i change about myself to make him like me. Should i change or should i just not change at all
2006-06-07 17:40:46 · 22 answers · asked by fez101@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
live by this quote and you'll be okay........... i'd rather be hated for who i am than loved for who i am not.
2006-06-07 17:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by reyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should NOT have to change yourself in order for someone to like you! If they can't accept you for who you really are then they are not worth your time!! If someone doesn't like you for one reason or another then you can't make someone change there mind. Not everyone is going to like you, its a fact of life and you just have to accept it!! Hun, I think you can do a hell of a lot better. Find someone who likes you for you!! Good luck!!
2006-06-08 00:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by mccamel1666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a tough one- and i can only tell you what i think is the best way based on my own experience
if you "change" for him- then you are not truly being yourself, and he will not be liking the real "you". however we are evolving beings, and we do change...constantly... into better versions of our own selves. the thing is, be who you are, naturally... just be...don't try to be something that you are not- something you think he will like-that will always fall short- please yourself fist, love who you are, first---then you will attract the right person, who appreciates realness and truth , and honesty, into your life. then you will not "need" anyone else's love, but by your own brightness you will attract the incredible light of your perfect soul mate.
*peace and good luck!
2006-06-08 00:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by zentrinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should change at all if you want some one to like you they should like you for you and not for some one you are pretending to be by changing you are you own person with your own personallities. and your own looks whats on the inside is what counts not whats on the out side
2006-06-08 00:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by lovemscooby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well look at it this way if people cant except you for the real person you are then it wasn't meant to be you cant go though life prenting some one your not be honest with your self because you have to think about your self first in this world. and sooner or later you well find the right person that you can be your self with and you well be a lot happer with your self.
good luck.
2006-06-08 00:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need to change at all. If he doesnt like you, that's HIS problem. NOT yours. Dont change for ANYONE!
2006-06-08 00:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should chang for eny one not to be mean but if he cant accept you for who you are then I gees you should just move on and find some one that does accept you for who you are.
2006-06-08 00:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by jazzyfreespirit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not do anything
dont change anything
Love is about accepting
If he doesnt accept you,then he doesnt love you at all
2006-06-08 00:47:09 · answer #8 · answered by Curiosity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change!!! If He doesn't Like You his Loss!
2006-06-08 00:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by Jenna Bean!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT CHANGE YOURSELF AT ALL!!! If he does not like you for who you are, then you are just with the wrong person. find somebody who will value you and appreciate you for who you are.
You deserve better! good luck
2006-06-08 00:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by bambi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All successful relationships require compromises. Learn how to prioritize what you're willing to change and what you're not.
2006-06-08 00:50:45 · answer #11 · answered by chdoctor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋