I sent email to my boy friend, proposed breaking up since his attitudes toward our relation bother me. In his reply, he appologized for things he has done and let me know the reasons, such as "we are far away", " i have some girls but none of them can be compared to u"
At the end of his email " but we can be friends OR ...? "
What does he mean by OR...?
What should I reply him ?
2006-06-07 17:35:44 · 16 answers · asked by bluesky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Reply him back and ask him what he meant by the last sentence he sent you. Ask him him what does he mean by OR. You will never know it and you would only have opinions on what he means if you don't ask him.
I would just like to add a comment when your bf said that you are far away from each other. If he really loves you, it is not a valid reason. Let me tell you this, me and my husband (before we got married), we lived so many thousands of miles away from each other. It lasted for two years that we were very far from each other until I joined him in his place. It was because of the great distance we had before (he lives in other side of the world, and I live at the other side). See the distance that we had? But you know what, it became NOT the hindrance to pursue our relationship and got married at the end. Now, we are happily married
2006-06-07 17:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by sweethonesty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how about picking up the phone and talk to the guy? why are you managing your love life via text? although some of the best love stories and letters ever told were letters - but I doubt that your love life will be graced with such achievements.
Call the dude, and ask: "What does the "OR entails?" (if he knows what "entails" means ;-)
2006-06-08 00:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by The CEO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or means friends or more than friends
ITS OVER ITS 2 LATE 2 APPOLOGIZE
2006-06-08 00:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel it 100%, then suggest no contact for a while. It sounds like you have moved on.
2006-06-08 00:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by c'estmoi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thought you already ask this ? but here goes you didn't feel good about before and you wanted to break up so what is the differents now , ask yourself do you want what you had ?
2006-06-08 00:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's leaving it open for you to fill in the blank. Tell him the truth about how you feel. He'll appreciate your honesty.
2006-06-08 00:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by Just wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
freinds or enemies. Its a figurative expression meaning that even if we cant be lovers we still can be important to each other
2006-06-08 00:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by Mash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to go to hell and not to waste your time. but to answer you question, the "or" is implying to be with you. though, it sounds like he's got some girls around already...so don't get played
2006-06-08 00:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would write to him and ask...."Or what?" Breaking up through e-mail doesn't sound cool to me. Maybe you should call him.
2006-06-08 00:40:49 · answer #9 · answered by windandwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the OR is him leaving it up to you to decide what you both are to each other. hi dosnt want to make the final decision
2006-06-08 00:42:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋