I used to go out with this guy on and off for a while. then one of my best friends ""L" started going out with him. rthey remained close now "L" is going out with "D" a second time and i had to ask to find out! she asked if i would be mad if she went out with him and i told a half lie and said no. "D" and I had been mad at each other lately and "L" knew . what do i do? do i do anything? ps this is after him leading me on/asking me out for a few months.
2006-06-07 17:35:30 · 7 answers · asked by ~*Suz*~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i hate to say get rid of the friend over a dude but, ask yourself how good of a friend is she? for one, best friends don't keep secrets from each other. but also how deep did you and this guy go? there's no one way to answer this. talk to your friend and tell her that you are hurt by this. true friends will get past anything, even this.
2006-06-07 17:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by slh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I hate to tell you this but you need to cut both of them off! Neither of them care about you at all...they don't care if they hurt you or whether your feelings would be hurt or anything.
All they care about is themselves. And if they are dating they had to be talking secretly behind your back in the first place. You don't jus up and start dating someone out of the blue. It had to be a mutual planned thing.
Realize that you don't need them. Love yourself enough to let them out of your life and find friends and a boyfriend who genuinely care about you!
2006-06-08 00:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by Honey Luv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly if she were your best friend or any friend she wouldn't have gone out with him in the first place...it's an unspoken rule...secondly you should not have anything to do with that guy cuz guys will come and go...finally tell your friend exactly how you feel...even if it hurts her or you loose her cuz like i said firstly she shouldn't have done anything with him in the first place
2006-06-08 00:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new best friend!
2006-06-08 00:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by c'estmoi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes not ur friend watso ever from tha frist time i would of kicked her ***
2006-06-08 00:45:12 · answer #5 · answered by sexybabygurll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
patient.is important in our life so dont waste your time with thinking of that
2006-06-08 00:40:40 · answer #6 · answered by ARAVIND R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this an algebra question? Who is "D"?
2006-06-08 00:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by iansand 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋