Should I break up wit my girlfriend if she is to controling? If I dont call her she gets all mad at me! Also she gets mad at me if I talk about another woman and I say Oh she is pretty and she can say Oh he is hot he asked me out the otherday! That makes me feel like she is putting me down so please give me advice!
2006-06-07 17:28:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump the psycho and run! I know the type, just don't fall for the whole crying thing, it's an act.
2006-06-07 17:32:52 · answer #1 · answered by Erik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up on her quite yet, she may just have some insecurity issues. The next time she says or does something controlling, point it out to her and tell her how it makes you feel. I kind of understand where she's coming from though, because us girls likes to hear from you guys everyday. It's just nice to connect with the other person on a daily basis. When you don't call her, she probably feels like you don't care about her. Also, saying that another woman is pretty probably isn't a hot idea. : ) It's kind of an awkward thing to hear, and that's probably why she's getting back at you by saying that other guys are hot. Just some perspective from a girl. If her behavior gets too out of control, let her go because surely she will only get worse.
2006-06-08 00:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by jellybean24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T break up with her! She might just care about you a lot! When she gets mad when you don't call, it might be because she is worried about your safety. Also if she's been cheated on in the past, she might be a little insecure. And you bringing up that another girl is hot, probably doesn't help that situation. If her talking about other guys bothers you, you need to talk to her about it. If you really like this girl, talk to her!
2006-06-08 00:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its fair that she talks about other guys like that but wont let you talk about other girls. There's nothing wrong with looking off the menu as long as you don't order anything. Tell her that you dont think its right that she talks about other guys but gets all mad when you talk about other girls. Hang up on her the next time she says something about another guy and let her call you back and ***** you out and say hey you know what you're gonna talk about a guy i'm just gonna hang up.
2006-06-08 00:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she isn't a kind of girls you really like? I think you can tell her what you think and try to find a way out. Tell her your feelings. Tell her why you don't call her and ask her to understand you. Why do you talk about another pretty woman in front of her if she doesn't like it??? Both of you should adjust yourself and think about your partner's feeling before saying or doing something. Don't do something stupid to make each other angry or jealous. That'll just make things worse. how can you end a relationship so easily?? just talk to her first.
Good luck!
2006-06-08 00:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by BaBy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would talk to her and tell her why you think you want to break up and if she continues to control you like that i would leave her... that would get on my nerves bad... just think if you cant live your life then why stay with her ... its like shes living your life for you by controlling you all the time, you have to be your own person. oh, and i would tell her if she can talk about going out with hot guys then you can say a girl is pretty sometime and if thats all she has to worry about is you calling her all the time then i would tell her that maybe she needs to tell one of those hot guys who asks her out to call her, and just break it off...
2006-06-08 00:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by dixiegurl8804 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can be pretty controlling to my fiance too but you just need to talk to her. If you tell her you'll call do it! because we will be waiting and don't talk about other women unless she asks because otherwise it maes her feel insecure and maybe that's why she says mean stuff back! Just relize she's got a lot of feelings and things on her mind talk to her!!!
2006-06-08 00:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can only control when she is allowed to. That is no reason to break up with her if you really like her. Just let her know that the controlling spirit have to cease. Remind her that she is not your mother, she is your girlfriend. Big difference
2006-06-08 00:34:13 · answer #8 · answered by artie5mack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your girlfriend does not have any confident in herself .and she is showing it by the way she is trying to control you and who you can talk to .Let her know you have eyes for her only .Don't talk about other women to her ,sometimes when a woman needs to lose weight or don't feel good about them self .It want take much to make them jealous ..If you can't talk things over and change for each other ,,then you may need to go on by your self ..
2006-06-08 00:40:15 · answer #9 · answered by SkyLyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Controlling people usually become abusive at some point.
2006-06-08 00:32:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋