i have a ""friend"and she has an attitude what should i do?

Question

ok she is always like trying to control my life into doing things and
she acts like she really knows me so she does whatever so what do you think?

Answer 1

She's not your friend. If she won't stop, drop her.

Answer 2

Dear Maria, it is very irritating to have such friends. i have such a friend too but i have solved the problem.

You should tell her thanks for her opinion with a smile whenever she gives the unwanted opinion!

but there is simply no need to follow whatever she says.You have a mind and plus it is your life.

but,don't also forget that a person is not always wrong.Maybe sometimes her opinion can really come in handy so at-least please listen to her and consider it too even if you don't follow what she says!

And more over some people are insecure with their own minds jumbled up in life so they just want to feel more secure knowing that they can control at-least someone in their lives!tell her politely that you can think for yourself and if she seems offended offer her help!ask her about her problems and you both for some time get more involved in her life!!!

if all this doesn't work buy a book named "how to dump a friend"!!!
hope this helped
lots of luv
meghana

Answer 3

LOl @ Armon, No just tell her that you don't like being pushed around and that you dont appreciate her attitude towards you and as a friend she should have more respect for you and if she continues to treat you this way then I suggest finding a new friend! Nobody deserves to be treated like that. Good luck!

Answer 4

Either get mean, or get out! This isn't the kinda relationship to be placing yourself in, because that girl sounds like an abuser, and physical episodes are possible. Don't settle for lower grade friends, make a new one, and forget the hoe.

Answer 5

try sitting down and talking like a civilized adult. tell your "friend" how it makes you feel when she tries to run your life. she may know you, but does she really know you? does anyone really know anyone else? that is the ultimate question here, i think. many people think they know me, but they only know as much as i tell them. your "friend" may think that she is trying to help you, but in the long run she may end up hurting you accidently. invite her to share her thoughts and feelings on the subject, don't be the center of attention. try not to push the subject to much either, that might piss her or you off and start a fight.

good luck on your journey we call life.

Answer 6

Tell this to her, and talk to her in a civilized manner. I'm sure as a human, she might understand the situation, or maybe she is not aware that she is doing this horrible mistake.

Answer 7

Try confronting her about the situation or contact Dr. Phil he seems to know all the tricks.

Answer 8

try to be independent show her you have got your own point of view and a brain to think and you do nt need her advice all the time when you need it tell her you will ask for her help even you have got a life...

Answer 9

So what's this to do with quotations?? Oh, by the way give your friend the boot, big time. Jules, Australia.

Answer 10

tell her to F#ck off and stop with the controlling attitude.

Answer 11

sounds like she's a dumb *** and can't control anything in her life, so she makes you feel like **** so she can be in a good mood. just kick the living **** out of her, and tell her your the boss of your life and if your going to be unhappy, then it will be your doing not hers.