I broke up wit my boyfriend saturday. But we we workings out our problems. But i feel like things arent the same. But we do everything the same. We had sex yesterday and spent all day together just watchin tv and goin shopping. He told me i would be easy to be replaced, but after that he said he was kidding and it would be hard to replace sumone like me. Should i be worried since we havent officualy(sp?) desides to be together, or should i just wait a lil more and see what happens
2006-06-07 16:39:35 · 5 answers · asked by lilchristaboo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Many people said they broke up when all they did was take a heated hiatus(however short). Like a person who said they quit smoking then 8 weeks later they are smoking again. All they did was stop for a period. To quit is to quit, never to go back.
If things are so great, why break up with him? And if everything you do now is the same(which is why they say never go back to the exes because you are just getting more of what you had)why even go through this break up junk in the 1st place?
Does he still have feelings. I would say so. After all, YOU "broke up" with him. Not him from you. Why? I can't call it. Maybe because he is comfortable with the sex, and the familiarity of you.
Apparently whatever he did to make you step out was not so bad to leave the sex with him behind either.
2006-06-07 18:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he said your easy to replace then he might someday think of cheating on you or leaving you, but if you love him then you should follow your heart. Maybe you should even try praying to god, see if he has any thoughts or anything to say about it. If you think you can be without him then try to for a little while, if he really cares he will give you some space to think about your guy's relationship. Relationships can be a hard thing to get through, and perfect relationships dont seem to last long. Maybe you two will just become closer after this.
2006-06-07 16:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a vague relationship with him: you broke up saturday and you just had sex yesteday? how would you describe your relationship with him now? sex partners because it didn't work well with both of you?
he's probably playing and holding you UNTIL he finds a replacement! and if he does, he'll drop you off like some hot potato! and it would be so hard for you to handle the situation...leave him...
2006-06-07 16:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by curiosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,give it some time,you really need to see where you are in that relationship with him,one way to find out sooner is to with hold sex with him.since you are broken up whats the harm,soon you will know if he still loves you or just a booty call until he meets someone new.
2006-06-07 16:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by deerwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
him saying u can be easily replaced isnt a joke and isnt funny leave him and remind him its over hes a jerk and hes not worth it
2006-06-07 16:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋