Any one got any advice What should i do.
2006-06-07 16:23:38 · 35 answers · asked by goody_girl_forever_13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take one nut in each hand, pull in totally differant directions. When he finally raises up, look at him, turn around and walk off, and think God that you werent married to this SOB.
2006-06-07 16:28:03 · answer #1 · answered by Elly 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
You know what you should do already. You are seeking advice in hopes that there is another way to handle this.
These are your choices:
You can make excuses for him, blame yourself, listen to his lies and end up more miserable than you can even imagine.
You can break it off-giving him what he already has taken back-his freedom and move on with your head held high.
Or you could confront the two of them-make a scene-fight for your man!
The choice is yours to make but think of how you feel right now! Do you like feeling like a fool? Of course not.Do you really love him so much that it is worth sacrificing your self respect? He will not change.Once the trust is broken it can never be the same.If you have a heart of gold and forgive him- You will be repaid by more abuse. It is a proven fact.
So-gather up all his crap and drop it off,break it off and don't look back.He will have more respect for you in the end. You know yourself that he would do the same regardless of his wrongs.Hold your head high and remove all ways he can hurt you anymore than he already has.
Best of luck!
2006-06-07 16:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is cheating on you then he doesn't respect you or the relationship so you should leave him alone...I know that's not what you want to do, but it's what you should do...and after all, that was your question.
Why be with someone who was messing around with someone else behind your back. Sure he says he'll change and he'll never do it again, but the only reason you know about this is probably cuz you caught him or because he started feeling guilty. Either way, he can't be trusted and the relationship isn't going to work. He's sorry he got caught, not sorry he cheated.
2006-06-07 16:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your boyfriend's infidelities. The easy reply is to tell you to "leave him." However, due to the physical and emotional attachment and connection you have established with your boyfriend, you may find this difficult to do initially. I am sure you know that the right decision is to leave your boyfriend, but the first feelings you may be experiencing are shock, sadness and disbelief. Based on whether or not you have confronted your boyfriend, he may deny it when confronted, or he may confess. Regardless, your first step will be to inform this cheater that the relationship is over. When you end the relationship with him, do not give him a chance to schmooze his way back into your already broken heart. All lines of communication must be terminated. Do not accept his phone calls. It may be tempting to, but you must be strong. Do not see him in person. Cheaters will usually beg and plead to see you "one last time" so the cheater can persuade you to change your mind. During this time, feelings of sadness may turn to anger, as you replay your relationship in your mind and realize why did you waste time with this person. These may lead to feelings of resentment as well. Please maintain consistency in your behavior if you run into your boyfriend after the breakup. If he corners you in public, inform him the relationship is over and move on. I am guessing you are a teenager. My best advice is, we all experience heartbreak during our teenage years. Enjoy what's left of them and have fun. Tying yourself down to early with one person is not only boring, but can be unhealthy.
2006-06-07 16:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by adjoadjo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do what your heart says, but try to remember that staying with him could cause you to get hurt again. I don't think you should put up with it. Seriously think you will be better off letting go and moving on, no matter how hard it seems now, time heals all wounds!!!!!!! Good luck
2006-06-07 16:29:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you gatta do is go up to him really casual like and then ask "would you ever cheat on me?" if he says no, say "Really, because (Insert Who ever told you the truth,)told me that you were! or ask who is (inset the name of who he is cheating on you with)? Then say it's over in a firm voice.
In other words, dump him like tuesday's trash!
2006-06-07 16:32:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has cheated on you once, he has cheated on you before and will cheat on you again. It has obviously been time for you to break off this relationship for some time.
2006-06-07 16:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by cute_valley_boys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y are u asking? Confront him and dump him, there are too many std's out there to take a chance he'll bring something to YOU. Respect yourself---nobodyelse will unless you respect you first.
2006-06-07 16:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by STACEY S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST, MAKE SURE ALL THE FACTS OF UNFAITHFULNESS ARE ACCRUED!!!
If true then...
Come on where's your self-worth?!?
Dump him of-course!
There are many fish in the sea!
And plus I think you might be young, so you still have alot of time to spend fishing!
And don't be discouraged, not all men are like that!
2006-06-07 16:31:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of good guys in store for you! Leave him. And do it right away! (Don't you want him to think both you and the other girl are fools? Leave that to her, it's bad luck she's got him, you'll see)
2006-06-07 16:30:41 · answer #10 · answered by bla_bla_bla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your question?? You have to leave him. If he has cheated on you he will do it again. If you confront him he will give only excuses and lie. Move on with your life sister.
2006-06-07 16:26:00 · answer #11 · answered by hpadbanabhan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋