What can i do to improve my speaking skills?

Question

usually around anybody i can be myself but when i talk to the girl i like i try, but cant think of anything ... i mean NOTHING comes up to mind what to say to her. argh what should i do any tips or anything?

Answer 1

Talk about the weather..it's the universal conversation made just for those awkward moments!!

Answer 2

This might sound silly or too simple, but really, you just need to remember that this girl is just a person too. She has fears and insecurities and wants to be liked just as much as the next person. Don't be intimidated, just try to relax, be yourself (as someone else mentioned) and be confident. Girls generally notice a guy who's sure of himself. Just think that she could be thinking the same thing about you, feeling nervous, not having any idea what to say to you, and all you need to do is say hi, SMILE, ask her a question and LISTEN. Also, make eye contact. Don't stare her down, just look her in the eyes...make sure your eyes aren't, well, lower, when she's trying to talk back.

Answer 3

Think of something to say before you run into her. Have you asked her out? You are worrying that she is the only one for you. Give it a break, if you talk to her maybe she might like you. Women, including this one, are just people.

Answer 4

Try to relax and be yourself look at her as she is human just like you ask her how she is doing or talk about your day or her day and things will start to flow naturally

Answer 5

Start with something simple like " Hello"... then move on to "Hows things?" and if she hasn't walked away yet you have started a conversation.

Answer 6

sry! all i can say is be yourself. there is NO reason to be nervous. if she likes u then she'll like u talking to her and u not being nervous!