It is for his own good yea? But some say that it takes away their freedom of choice!
2006-06-07 16:04:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I have young children I have set up activities based on their own interests (my daughter is in ballet because ever since she could WALK she's been dancing around the house, I have to BEG her at times to STOP dancing around), I have told my children that if they no longer wish to pursue a certain activity they can stop at anytime (as long as it's not something stupid like they wanted to not go to something for a week because it would interfere with going over to Johnie's house for his party). I also like to get them out to try new things to see what they like to do like maybe a 3 week pottery class, or a music appreciation class where they get to experience many different instruments to see if any strike their fancy. If the parents are going along enrolling their kids in things without asking the kids whether they WANT to do it, and blindly say you will do this, this and this and take no consideration whether the child is HAPPY doing these things then what's the point? I also believe that kids' schedule shouldn't be SO packed with playdates, sports, dance practice, etc that they have no time to PLAY and be kids. My fondest memories as a kid was going off around the neighborhood to play with my friends. Kids have the rest of their lives to be adults, and they will spend all that adult time wishing they were kids again. There is SO little time to be a kid with no responsibilities and carefree, so let them be!!!
2006-06-07 16:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by Kat__hleen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let the child pick lets say 2 activities from 5. That way it has chosen the activities that it does. Be sure not to overload your schedules. I say 2 activities a week, up to four times a week. If they cannot handle two, because of schoolwork or whatever, let them pick the one to cut. I had a very loaded schedule as a child, and I loved it. There is nothing wrong with it. The schedule I had as a child has helped me by allowing me to managemy schedule between work, school, and a fiance. I reccommend it! Good Luck!
2006-06-07 23:10:54 · answer #2 · answered by HCW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't see a problem with selecting programs and activities for young children to do. BUT, listen if/when the child tells you that they don't enjoy a certain activity, and be open to suggestions.
2006-06-08 07:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by Sinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We believe in respectful parenting. That means respect children as you would yourself. Let them sleep and eat when they want. Give them every opportunity you can to let them learn and try new things. Kids (even infants and toddlers) will let you know whether they are enjoying their activities or not! Go by their wishes and don't worry about others' parenting advice!
2006-06-07 23:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by schoolquestions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to set schedules and rules for life. How else would a child learn responsibility
2006-06-07 23:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely ......... but be sure to include some free time and family time too
2006-06-07 23:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by Granny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely
2006-06-07 23:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋