when they could just as easily date someone nice who cares about them and will treat them well.
2006-06-07 15:59:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because they are niave and they dont realise what kind of great people are out there until they get hurt over and over and then they clue in hey i want a nice person not an asshole
2006-06-07 16:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because a lot of people are liars, cheats and awful. I dont choose to date them. I have to go through the awful process to find out they are liars, cheats and awful people. By that time I'm in love and stuck. Takes me a little while to un-stick. But I always eventually do until I'm back trying to un-stick myself again. Where are all those trustful, monogamous, wonderful people ? I feel like I'm here with only a few friends. So, you ask why ? Because the human race has made it so.
2006-06-07 23:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many reasons. People lack the capacity to discern true raw emotion for self-believed feelings. They do not know the difference between love and lust, commitment and comfort ability, or the true meaning of loyalty. Women like to get men who are thuggish rough necks because they are bored silly with the buttoned down nice guys you can count on. It is like taking a ride on the highest, fastest roller coaster. There is an element of danger. Also the air that the are safe and protected because most mistaken impudence and rudeness as power and confidence. And the more desirable the person(being seen as a hunk or a babe)give you more license to act badly. If who you are with don't like it, you can fire them and there are 12 more waiting to get next to you. They say opposites attract because they had the Tabasco to the burger unlike the good guy's soy. They attract but like a comet they flame out fast and leave you burned with a big hole. Many people trade on temporary happiness now, over stable calm long term happiness(that is until they grow up)
2006-06-08 03:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The human mind is easily deceived unfortunately. Often times looks on the outside deceive people into thinking that whats pretty on the outside can't be ugly on the inside. Wrong oppinion too by the way; I have seen some girls that set the bar on beauty and were absolute lepers on the inside.
2006-06-07 23:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sparky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz they dont know what they get themselves into b/c they fall in love so fast and i was in a relationship like dat i loved him so much and i didnt realize the lies until i actually seen him do it but i was nieve at first cuz at first our relationship was so good but after the first 2 weeks it went downhill and we argued all the time and we went out for 3 months and 2 wks and it was so stressful and awful but now we are good friends
2006-06-07 23:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by $_$aRiEl$_$ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to find the right person with so many impersonators out there. It is hard to give up on someone when you already have invested alot. Also we are looking for the wrong things We are looking for what the media tells us not what is really good for us.
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-06-07 23:03:35 · answer #6 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually I think people do know they're dating assholes, they just don't feel like they deserve something good, you know something better; at the end of the day we're all very screwed up
2006-06-07 23:08:35 · answer #7 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because the liars are lying about being good people. and because the nice guys are always thought of as being boring
2006-06-07 23:03:51 · answer #8 · answered by cwfraggle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you need to set some ground rules. If they break
the rules, dump the chump.
2006-06-07 23:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by thresher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the challenge of thinking they can be the one to change them and thinking they are different from all the other people that person has dated.
2006-06-07 23:02:40 · answer #10 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people prefer to get treated like shyt, there really is no way to explain it... my friend is the nicest guy in the world and he is always really nice to all of his girlfriends and he always gets his heartbroken...
some girls just suck
2006-06-07 23:04:45 · answer #11 · answered by lilshortsunshine2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋