If you have a stepdad and he try to touch you what would you do?

Question

this is sick..!!

the thing is that im scared cuz he just got married with my mom..!! i dont wanna ruin it...

Answer 1

Shoot him in the balls

Answer 2

I know you're scared of telling your mom, but you really, really should. He is doing things to you that are wrong, and I'm sure if your mom knew about it she would stop it.

Think of it this way: you are not ruining this marriage for your mom and this man, he is ruining it by betraying her trust and hurting (or trying to hurt) her child, whom she loves more than anything.

If you still don't feel you can tell your mom, tell a teacher, or a school counselor, or a police officer, or a neighbor or relative or any adult you can trust, so they can help you get away from a man who is trying to hurt you. This is not your fault, and no one will blame you for this. Your mom and your family is better off without a sexual predator in their midst.

Answer 3

It is more than sick, he is a child molester. Tell someone immediately and file charges. You may not be the only one he has touched. He may have not got caught yet. My daughter was molested when she was 14 when she stayed the weekend with her dad and didn't tell anyone until she was 16 but after the man was sentenced to prison. She became depressed and scared of everyone. She was threaten by the molester that if she told he would kill her. He went to jail after molesting about 10 kids in the neighbor where her dad lived. He was in jail for about 1 or so before they sent him to prison. The molester lived next door to her dad, molested her half brother and many kids in the neighborhood. So, get him in jail as fast as you can. The man that molested my daughter had molested his own children. No one knew this in the neighborhood because he was very polite, never caused a problem, was always there to help a neighbor when they needed help. She finally told me and her dad after the man went to prison. Don't keep this to yourself, tell everything he has done to you.

Answer 4

Have a nice talk on heart-to-heart with your mom and tell her the actual situation of your stepdad. If the situation get bad and if your mom not aside you, the best way is try to move out from the house. Report to the police is the best idea but is the last solution...

Try to get the feedback from you mom b4 you act further. I believe, as a mom, for sure, she will protect her kid in whatever matter...

God bless you.

Answer 5

if my stepdad ever tried to touch me i would be scared but don't let that hold u back u need to tell someone who will listen to u like your mom or a close relative who has the power to do something.

I am so sorry this had to happen to u. u have to get that guy out of your life before things get worse i've seen this happen to many times

Answer 6

Sweetie, don't worry about "ruining" anything for your mom - she needs to know what is going on, and she needs to place your safety and welfare first above whatever feelings she may have for this guy. Tell her. Now. She may not want to hear it, because most women do not want to accept that the man they have fallen love with would do such a thing, but your welfare comes first. Tell your mom, tell every adult relative you have, talk to your friends' moms and ask them to talk to your mom about this for you; if you attend church, ask for a counseling session with your pastor and Sunday school teacher, let them know what is going on. By all means, call the police and ask to file a complaint; call the national child abuse and neglect hotline at 1-800-482-5964. Call the local office of your state's Social Services department (may be listed as Department of Health and Human Services); the number will be listed in the phone book, there should be a section close to the front of the book with local and state government listings. If you can't figure out which number it is, call information and ask; or, call 9-1-1 and ask the operator to help you locate the number you need, s/he will most likely put you in touch with the agency which will provide the help and information you need. Please, don't be afraid to speak out - this guy is going to keep on until someone makes him stop, and that will not happen unless you tell. Don't warn him that you will tell, though - just do it. If he tries to threaten you or frighten you into keeping quiet, don't listen to him; he's just bluffing. Tell. Tell now. Be safe, sweetie, and keep us all posted on what's happening - we care about you.

Answer 7

First tell your mother. Then tell your father. If no one helps you, you should tell someone at your school, a teacher or a counselor. This activity needs to be reported to the police. You may need to be removed from your home and placed with a relative until it can be worked out. Please remember, that you have done nothing to deserve this. Even if this person said that you lead them on, this is not true. They are the adult, you are the child, and they should never cross that line- no matter what. You deserve to have a childhood free of this activity. Good luck.

Answer 8

Was the attemp inappropriate. For example, just a touch on the shoulder or arm would not cause any worry. Inappropriate touching of legs or any other body part where you feel threatened or harrassed should be reported to authorites. The first step is to tell Stepda to stop what he is doing or trying to do. If he carries on you need to tell another family member. If the attempts continue, you must report this person to authories for your own safety.

Answer 9

Tell your mom. She needs to know what this perv is doing to her kids! If she won't listen, you need to tell a teacher or school counselor or the parent of a friend or get in touch with a police officer and let them know. This guy should not get away with this simply because he is married to your mom. I am sure your mom would want to know about this. I am a mom and if this were happening to my kids I would certainly want to know about it. Don't wait on this!

Answer 10

if i had a stepdad who tried to touch me i would first tell my mother depending on how old you are. if mom does nothing then i would notify the police. and never blame your self for what has happened that man is just plain sick he needs help. always remember you did nothing wromg so never ever think that you did.

ps
i have been in your shoes

Answer 11

Yes, this is extremely sick and harmful!
VERY, VERY quickly before more harm is done tell your Mom!
Hopfully your Mom will think correctly by turning him into the police. After all, a biological son is more important than a non-related second-hand loser husband!