So, I'm divorced. I have dated. I got burned really bad by the guy I dated---ended up being completely borderline personality, domestic abuser, etc... Lied to me about everything. I'm beginning to feel like I can date again. There are several interested in me, but i dont yet know exactly what i want.... i'm beginning to see it.
I'm having a tough time because while most of the time im okay being alone... sometimes i'm soooooo lonely. I have some great friends. but i miss just coming home and chilling together in front of the tv or whatever.
how can i deal with the loneliness and stay objective about the way i see men??? I dont want another bad relationship. and i'm ready to settle down if the right man were to come along.
2006-06-07 15:14:45 · 5 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Sorry to hear that you wound up hooking up with a real creep,not all guys are like that . Myself I like to shower the special lady in my life with attention , affection and praise. I don't believe that any woman deserves to be treated badly by a man. Take your time and really get to know the next guy who sparks your interest you never know he could be the one and if he is he'll know that you're worth waiting for.
2006-06-07 16:45:02 · answer #1 · answered by messedupsingledad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy can I relate! I was in a very abusive relationship for 13 years(yeah I was stupid). But when I got out everyone was telling me to date but I was scared yet I was lonely and just wanted someone to cuddle with. So what i did was find something that I really enjoyed to fill that empty space I did this for 2 yrs till I knew who I was aand really knew what I was looking for in a man, and so I didn't find another loser. Basically I made myself happy! a nd anything after that was ans is just a bonus.First you have to get to know you though and take your time, when its right you will find the one you want to spend time with.
Good luck!!
2006-06-07 22:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by flablueeyes67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor when it comes to men and DATE. Women tend to meet a guy and instantly they are boyfriend/girlfriend (whether the guy knows it or not)...women are clingy like that. If there's several guys interested, and they ask you on a date, accept. Go on the date and leave it at that. It's a great way of finding what it is you want and don't want in a partner. Have fun! :o)
2006-06-07 22:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry!!! You just got to keep trying, there is no way you could know 100% sure that a man is a good one. You just got to try it. Try chatting, it works a lot.
2006-06-07 22:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by meeee_3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try eharmony.com. It is a christian organization.
2006-06-14 11:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by Cassie H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋