and I dont care, our parents have passed and I feel my life has really just started how can I keep that feeling going?
2006-06-07 15:01:40 · 9 answers · asked by sinneragain 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
It's alright to not like your siblings. Sometime's I don't think I like mine, either. We're very different and have different ideas about life and living it. Sometimes family like that can suck the life right out of you and bring you into a depressed state of mind. I'm sure you don't want to be mean to them, but I'd just let them know that you need your space and that trying to keep an ongoing relationship with them is just not viable.
2006-06-07 15:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by spitonapit 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First, why does this make you feel like your life has just started after the death of your parents? Why do you want to keep that feeling? I live far away from my parents and siblings and I miss them. Remember blood is thicker than water and if you are ever in need of help, you may need the help of your brother or sister.
2006-06-07 22:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the oldest of eight. Some sibs I am close with, one I have virtually no relation with. Your life starts when you finally feel you can move ahead. You keep that feeling, as long as your are living a full and satisfying life. BUT, if you separated yourself from sibs because of unresolved issues, you will never be truly at peace. Those issues will show up in other ways. Believe Me!
2006-06-07 22:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by MOI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with it. It doesn't hurt to call and say hello once in awhile but there is no need to get together every night. I also have grown apart from my family. I see them on holidays and special occasions. But for the most part it is me and my gf. I just don't share the same interests with them. They usually work or hang out at our dad's bar. That is not my lifestyle. Good luck.
2006-06-07 22:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by Nagitar™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me. The best thing to do is to build your own family unit and support with your husband and children. Make your own traditions and memories.
2006-06-07 22:04:53 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only have one sister, she is also my best friend. I don't know what i would do without her. you don't know what you are missing out on. I hope before its too late you reconcider and try to stay close to your family.
2006-06-07 22:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just live, love, and be happy and don't let anyone bring you down.
2006-06-07 22:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by NoFearIamHere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move to a different city, start fresh
2006-06-07 22:04:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is too bad, because family is important.
2006-06-07 22:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by Iron Rider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋