2006-06-07 14:54:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me get this strait... you two are marrried and you havent had sex yet? Whats the hold up? I would've had that taken care of in the limo on the way to the reception
2006-06-07 14:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by mharris90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean to say he is your "boyfriend"? If he is your husband and you are married you would have had sex already. If he is your boyfriend, then your question makes more sense. So when you are ready, make sure you use condoms and buy some lubricant, and take your time. You will both be nervous the first time and it may hurt you a little but that is normal. You may even bleed a little but that is normal, too. You have to tell him to go slow and gently, and don't be surprised if he ejaculates quickly the first time because he isn't used to it. Each time you do it, it will get better. And if it hurts, tell him so he can stop or do something different. Good luck.
2006-06-07 15:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by portjeff143 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you are ready for having sex, I would suggest starting with a candle lit bedroom and taking a long time to undress each other and to explore each others body. I would also have some KY jelly or some other sexually safe lubrication just in case there is any problems with size. My latest girlfriend was a virgin who still had her hymen. I tend to be on the larger size so we had to have lube to get me in the first time. I would also suggest missionary style where he is on top so that the two of you can look each other in the eyes while making love. If you have never had sex before, I would also recommend having a towel placed underneath in case of any bleeding. It will hurt the first time for the woman because of the way nature has it. As I said before, take your time and enjoy the experience. It is ok if there is problems the first time or two. It happened to me also.
2006-06-07 15:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by andy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u in a religous thing of some sort where u cant have sex???? Your married. Nows the time...You waited...Go for it!! Need help look up the Karma Sutra. It'll give you great ideas.
2006-06-07 14:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by patti h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you're married (I presume), in twenties, still virgin, both want to have sex.. then what's it that hinders your mating lol. or do you 'want to have sex really bad' with other persons, who are more experienced? What's indeed your problem??
2006-06-07 15:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is in your question, if u want to then do it. U know u can trust him, because he is your loving husband, and you know u love him. You should enjoy it and be the first to make the move.
2006-06-07 14:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by obiwan123866 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm and whats the problem?
2006-06-07 14:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by Manda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So have sex, It's not that complicated.
2006-06-07 14:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by C.bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been married?? I mean how many minutes?? LOL
2006-06-07 15:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Stranger In Maine™♥ (Thriller) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your married and you havent had sex? is that what yousaying? if so then have sex
2006-06-07 14:58:11 · answer #10 · answered by jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋