My girlfriend only has guy friends... she doesnt talk to other girls... she says that girls are drama... Is it wrong for your girlfriend to have guy friends?? Is it wrong for your girlfriend to hug her guy friends???
2006-06-07 14:42:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing wrong with it. She is right, most girls are drama. I used to only have guy friends, but then as I got older I met more girls like me.
And hugging your friends isn't a sin. It's ok. She's with you, not them. Stop being jealous, and be glad that she'd love hanging out with you and your boys.
2006-06-07 14:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Confront her and talk to her about it. Does her hugging other guys bother you? If she's your true girlfriend then I would talk to her about it and get straight if she really doesn't like the drama from other girls, or if she's simply just trying to get good with a whole bunch of guys. Try hooking her up with some girls that you know, but get her involved with more females because being around and choosing to be around guys all the time isn't healthy for a girl to do. She needs females too.
2006-06-07 14:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very much like your girlfriend as you described. Most of my friends are guys because girls are usually too much drama. I don't have any special feelings for them except as friendship. As long as things stay friendly between her and her friends, you have nothing to worry about. You have to trust her or your relationship is in the ruts already.
2006-06-07 14:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by AshAnn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not wrong. You need to tell her that her hugging other guys bothers you and then if she really likes you she will stop. But try not to be so jealous I know you might not be able to help it all the time but it is normal. I hope you are ok.
2006-06-07 14:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a similar problem with my girlfriend.
My theory is it's okay to a certain point. If it makes you hugely uncomfortable, and you let her know that, and she refuses to even compromise, then she's basically choosing her own feelings over yours. It isn't fair for her to do something that makes her happy at the expense of your happiness. By the same token, you can't expect her to change for you. If it's not something you can deal with, you may want to think about leaving.
2006-06-07 14:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by Kinzel99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey com on in which century r u livin? its ok if she has guy frnds, but if she is 2 much close to them then u should speak 2 her. the main problem in ur case is that u both hav communication gap. plz talk 2 her abt tis, somthings can be solved by mere dicussions
2006-06-12 22:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have only guy friends and hug them all the time it doesn't bother my boyfriend
2006-06-07 14:52:32 · answer #7 · answered by coachtaratighe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
but tell her if the hugging is annoying her..... if she likes you then she will stop it......
2006-06-07 14:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no
2006-06-07 14:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by shny_daniels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋