I saw my mom having sex with friend... My mom is 37 years old and divorced... My sister thinks that I should leave my mom alone and let her have her fun....
What should I do???
2006-06-07 14:36:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think your mom made a very bad decision. Your sister may think right now to just leave your mom alone and let her have her fun but someday your sister might change her mind. If you decide to approach your mom about this you can tell her how you feel. You can tell her, I think you made a bad decision having sex with my friend and if you chose to do it again i would appreciate you do it somewhere where I will not end up witnessing what it is you are doing. You can't change your mom or make her bad decision go away but you can tell her how you feel.
I think all people have an image of how they think their parents should be but parents aren't perfect and they do make bad decisions and some decisions are worse than others. I think your mom should have practiced some self control, met someone that wasn't a friend of yours and was more discreet with her intimate relationships while raising her family. It doesn't mean she is a horrible person, she just made a very bad choice.
2006-06-07 14:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by mia 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think is depends on how old the friend was, but I would let her know and how you feel. She may be divorced, but she maybe should have her fun a little more discreetly and definitely now with your friends.
2006-06-07 21:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by frnmlls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She had sex with YOUR friend??? That doesn't sound like something a mother should do.. if your mother had you when she was 17 that would make you only 20?? and more than likely she had you when she was a little older (if I'm right) so, that sounds kind of wrong to me if your friend is your age?? but that's just my opinion...
2006-06-07 22:14:12 · answer #3 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but I think this is just a sad , sad thing for a mature woman to do....... I know ppl that have done this..... it is disgusting and just plane ole wrong....... I would have a little chat with MOM about being more discrete and watching who and where she did what with........ if the boy was under age she could be asking for BIG trouble....... and I would also talk to the so called friend and ask him just what he was doing breaking a trust......... God bless
2006-06-07 21:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um she's 37 and single. Leave her alone.
2006-06-07 21:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by pottersclay70 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you mom is a divorcee, she has the right to sleep with whomsoever she wishes. It's her life. If the guy is abusive then it's another story.
2006-06-07 23:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i am with your sister on this. she is still your mom but let her do her thing you know? but true it does suck that it had to be your friend and you seen it too yuck. let mom have fun and please don't walk in on her fun again cuz you wouldn't want her to do the same now would you?!
2006-06-07 21:40:33 · answer #7 · answered by Girly♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if she is 37 and you are her daughter and its yo friend shes sleeping with damn how old is yo friend but she yo mom so i guess you should let her have her fun!
2006-06-07 23:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.731 Tenn-a-key 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not having sex with your friend, don't worry about it.
Most importantly, make sure your mom knows you know. If she is trying to hide it, this will eventually cause problems.
2006-06-07 21:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by andrew f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is right. Good Grief! Common sense.
2006-06-07 21:39:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋