i feel like a retard, i love this girl so much that it really hurts..........when people say i like her, i deny it, cuz no one else likes her cuz she is small, but she is popular, and since i'm no shallow b*tch, I love her. she has written me fake love letters with the help of my friends, asked me out twice as a joke....i siad "no", i didn't think it was serious, i didn't say it to her face though. when my friend asked her out for me behind my back as a joke, she said no.....i really want to spend the rest of my life with her, but what do i do? We'd make a great couple. GRRRRRRRR!!!!!!! i need help?
2006-06-07 14:22:40 · 10 answers · asked by Pretty Boy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh, for those of you who were wondering... she is 4'7".....the smallest in 7th grade....i'm 4'11". the average kid in the grade is like 5'3-4"
2006-06-07 23:42:34 · update #1
go up to her ur self and ask her out!!! and tell her ur serious about it! how small is she by the way?
2006-06-07 14:26:36 · answer #1 · answered by candy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound pretty shy is all.. (I luv your letter by the way!) Everyone I mean EVERYONE around you knows you're totally in love with this girl.. (and SHE knows it, my friend.) You may as well 'give it up' here.. lol. You've been 'made' man. (As I said, think it is kinda sweet!) I guess since you are so serious (you really are acting mature about it, by the way) you do not think the time is right now? You want to wait til you both get a little older so you can take her seriously, right? If you don't feel like it now, by all means wait. (May be the smartest thing you could do.. she's popular, obviously got a ton of friends.. play 'hard to get' and she'll be 'panting' for you, man.. ! trust me on this..) I think you are doing totally the right thing here.. going with your earlier instinct they were playing games w/you made you react as you did. (Nothing wrong there.) I think it'll work out.. (Ages here? I'm guessing teens.. you sound a few years older than she is..RU both in school then? You sound pretty serious.) I had a high school boyfriend that I NOW wish I had taken seriously. I'm 53 and this boy was NUTS about me.. my parents broke it up (we went out a coupleweeks one summer) because he 'wasn't good enough for me' (I went to college, he joined the army.) I got in 2 miserable marriages and hooked up w/this guy 30 years later and he told me how much I hurt him (and it haunts me to this day.. I wish I'd have taken HIM more seriously..) sigh.. ahh me. Well, that's neither here nor there.. I DO pay attention to these high school crushes now tho whenI read 'em and write in here.. later-- g'luck (melancholia)
2006-06-07 21:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out. how do you know that she was JOKING when she asked you out? she may have acted like it was all a joke just to help her feel better if you said no. you need to ask her out right now if you love her that much. you need to go up to her, get her alone, and ask her straight out... be sure to tell her in some way you are SERIOUS about her and you aren't joking. i betcha she will say yes.
2006-06-07 21:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
show her what you just said.......that you'd be a great couple.... one way or another..... but if you think you are, then she MIGHT know it already..... im basically in the same situatiaon.... thoughts not actions and im only 16 now........ i really wanna spend my life with her...
so ill just show her my good side , romantic side sometime...
then if she likes me then its PURE GOLD, if not, then she doesnt deserve me, and im probably in love, but i can only keep trying for so long until it hurts sooo much.....
2006-06-07 21:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats happned to me lots.(i like guys though) i had 2 move on. still give it sone time. u nedd 2 find some1 u like other than her and dont tell any of ur friends.
2006-06-07 21:27:43 · answer #5 · answered by R Nay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask her out your self and see what she says and if she says no then she dont like you but you will find someone else.
trust me.
2006-06-07 21:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey quit playin yourself as fool follow your heart and dnt worry bout them childish games she is playin she still like you
2006-06-07 21:59:27 · answer #7 · answered by meadea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't see the answer to this yourself? It's over!
2006-06-07 21:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel in person. It's as simple as that.
2006-06-07 21:27:45 · answer #9 · answered by Phoenix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her
2006-06-07 21:29:19 · answer #10 · answered by shny_daniels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋