Ok well i am dating this boy named Hunter we have been going out for 2 weeks but we've been friends forever. Well he is kinda friends with my ex Chris who i dated for almost a year. Im kinda torn between both guys. See there is this annoying girl sarah that liked hunter and I think chris to.Sarah has a dirty mouth and runs her mouth about me. I think both of the guys sorta like her. And I like my ex boyfriend chris still and i think he likes me to maybe. Which guy should i choose and how do i deal with this stupid Sarah gurl liking my guys??? I kno that was long but please try to answer!
2006-06-07 14:10:51 · 25 answers · asked by Megan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey people thanks for all the anwsers. And by the way im 15 not 12 just to clear things up. I know I sound like a carzy person too but things have been really tough the last couple of weeks for me so thanks for all the answers they are helping.
2006-06-07 14:20:13 · update #1
Me and Chris broke up because he liked another girl and he didnt really pay me any attention anymore. Chris is nice but Hunter is way nicer and sweeter to now that im actually thinking hard about all of this.
2006-06-07 14:24:56 · update #2
I am not the type of girl that doesnt want someone else to have what or who i dont have. Im not like that ok. I just want one guy to be with. And maybe i can just be friends with the ex
2006-06-07 14:27:32 · update #3
Do you run into each other all the time? That makes it more complicated. So Sarah has a dirty mouth (swears you mean?) or she just cuts you down (to make herself look teriffic.) I think IF either guy is falling for that (and you just keep being YOU.. be nice, sweet, 'there' for them both) they're losing out! (not you.) You are all teens I imagine and everyone is 'growing up' right now .. (Don't be offended.. I'm 53/F and I don't think I know everything now!.. lol) The guys need to find out (for themselves) who is lying, who is telling the truth, which girl is nice or bad and which girl they really, REALLY want! (I'm betting it's you!) Hang in there.. do as I say and please don't 'cut Sarah down' to them. They need to figure this out for themselves. (It's tempting to cut Sarah, sure.. I know.. but it makes you look as bad.. trust me! I know these things, honey.) g'luck.. be a 'pal' to all 3 of 'em if at all possible (and I know it's easy for ME to say.. I'm not livin' your life.. lol It'll happen.) later melancholia
2006-06-07 14:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being that I don't know these two guys personally, I can only give you advice in regards to what you say. One way I can give you to decide is think about why you and Chris broke up. If that is worth being apart, then start a new life with Hunter. If not, and you think you and Chris are worth fighting for, reunite with Chris. Another way would be to think about who you have more fun with, and who makes your heart, and life more at peace; who can you see having a more productive life with. When you decide that, that's who you should be with. Choose whoever makes your life the most positive for the present, and the future. Listen to your heart, and not your mind.
2006-06-07 21:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's not much you can do about Sarah. I mean, if your boys believe her, then that's their problem and they should know to trust you. And as for the two boys, well trust me I know how you feel. If you wanna, take a look at my recent question about that. But I would say stick with Hunter because a friendship is the best thing to base a romance on.
2006-06-07 21:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by celticivory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask Chris if he still has any feelings for you. If not, get over him. If so, talk to Hunter. Ask him what his thoughts are. Does he like Sarah? Does he still want to be with you?
2006-06-07 21:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by Smacky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well talk to chris to see if he still likes u before u break up wit hunter and if he does tell hunter the story he will be sad or mad depending on trhe type but dont fall for it and for sarah tell here to stop it or try being really nice to her and mabye she wont talk about u anymore or just talk about her the same way then she will confront u and tell u to stop and then u can go ill stop if u stop
2006-06-07 21:16:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunter, Chris, Sarah.
you sound so egocentric I bet you are 13 or 12
2006-06-07 21:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by Turok 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't spend too much time thinking about this. Read what you wrote, it sounds crazy. If the guy likes you, you will be able to tell. If he goes for Sara then good then he is out of your life.
2006-06-07 21:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by pms247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are attracted to the two guys so you are playing them yet you have a problem with a girl doing the same as yourself are you the sort of person who doesn't want some one but doesn't want anyone else to have them if i am wrong you need to decide who and what you want and then protect what you have cause you cant protect what you don't have
2006-06-07 21:23:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OKay well if u dont like the guy ur dating then say sry its not gonna work and then wait a week before asking chris out(if u want too) lol and bout this sarah girl tell her to talk to me and ill straighten her out hahahhahaha jk jus tell her look i dont like you saying bad things bout me to my boyfriend and my ex- boyfriend. i jus wanna be friends and im afraid my boyfriend is gonna dump me for you! jus say that bc if she gets mad shell say more crap bout you to them and then ur boyfriend is gonna break ur heart and dump u for her!
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2006-06-07 21:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with he boy you are with cause chris might not like you and ignore the sara girl she is just jealous
2006-06-07 21:15:22 · answer #10 · answered by christine a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋