My girl still converses with her ex boyfriend they are best friends so she claims. She says there are no feelings for him but I find that hard to believe cause this was the first guy she ever loved. Will she go back to him? Now this other guy from her past whom I never heard of I found out yesterday has been calling her almost everyday. She says he just calls to check up on her and her family. Why do they have to talk everyday I dont know? This other guy from her school whom she had class with was her buddy to the point where she had pictures of him in her phone before me. One time on one holiday he called her and she tried to be slick and erase his number when confronted about the situation she first lied and said it was a girl whom I never heard of buy a few minutes later admitted he called to say have a nice holiday at 11:00 at night the day is over. She said she knew I was going to get mad thats y she deleted his number. Is this to many instances with her male friends?
2006-06-07 13:35:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she claims that there's nothing going on, then leave it at that. However, the next step is giving her an ultimatum. She needs to let go of these guys, ex-boyfriend because plain and simple, it's her EX, and that's all he should be. No talking on the phone everyday, hanging out with each other. She's with you now and she needs to put up some boundaries with these guys.
It''s not be predatorial, or possessive if she tries to bring that up. It's being respectful to her boyfriend. She wouldn't like it if you kept in touch with your ex's...or talk to other girls too much for her own liking.
If she can't respect your opinion then leave her. She sounds shady to me anyways.
2006-06-07 13:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, do not be mean to her.. there will be always those feelings toward them.. but daily call is rediculous.. TELL HER WHAT U FEEL ABOUT THIS..
Second, ask her permission to date another girl and ask her how she feels u dating someone else..
third, a bad person.. is a bad person.. and thats not who u want to spend your life-time with.. seriously..
2006-06-07 20:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by KnightSaber2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that you're girl is not very serious with your relatioship... talking with an ex everday and she said it is over plus all the other guys... does she still have time for you?
talk with her about your relationship... that you are serious and that this behavior is affecting your relationship...
then decide if this relationship should go on.
2006-06-07 21:16:42 · answer #3 · answered by crissimayo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound good. I would sit down have a long talk and start a new chapter of your life, with out her.
2006-06-07 20:42:28 · answer #4 · answered by chinacat14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound comfortable to me at all. I think you need a sit-down talk with her....and prepare for her to give you answers you don't want to hear.
2006-06-07 20:38:45 · answer #5 · answered by Spencer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would really think about finding a new g/f this 1 seems to be hooked with the wrong guy (aka its not you)
2006-06-07 20:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by degrassidk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she still likes or loves him and is probably waiting for the right moment to dump u and hump him
2006-06-07 20:39:14 · answer #7 · answered by thatgirl127 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should panic because there still something there between them
2006-06-07 20:39:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah give her the boot
trick
2006-06-07 20:38:12 · answer #9 · answered by ben12855 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is playing you. please find a girl that will treat u good, she doesnt deserve u and her ex is defiently not over her!
2006-06-07 20:40:21 · answer #10 · answered by kiss2envy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋