ok. dont knowwhat to do. my "bf" has been lying to me abt different things. recently we had a big fight. dont know if he was lying or not when he said he was playing me. he said i misunderstood him. but its a straight out question. he said he said yeh just so that i'd leave him alone. how do i know whats true? is it just worth leaving the relationship?
2006-06-07 12:58:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Too many fish in the sea to waste your time on someone you dont trust.
Go fishing !!
2006-06-07 13:02:07 · answer #1 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..I bet everyone else is going to say leave it.. I think so too but.. I'm curious about what else he has been lying about.. Is it little stuff..major stuff? I guess any lie is bad tho, huh? I guess if the **** he's been lyin' about is stuff like being faithful to ya.. (it'd make it easier to get rid of him.) I always think to get some dude out of your mind don't remember all the 'good times.' (We all wanna do that.. we've all 'been there' w/dis break-up thing..) anyhow, when you lose 'em you think you 2 had twice as good a thing as ya maybe really did.. (right?) I try and (make up ****, if ya have to) think up the GROSSEST **** I can about the dude.. (Laff in his face!) and that makes it easier to part wit him. If ya don't know what's true, I'd say he's fulla ****.
2006-06-07 20:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave because a relationship is all about trust and if you don't have that you don't have nothing. Also you don't want top stick around because soon it will make you look real needy of him and it will really hurt your ego. So leave before you really end up hurt and find a man that you can feel safe and happy with.
2006-06-07 20:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by alphamale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't in any way condone lying. I left a man after a year of dating because I was fortunate enough to uncover many lies that he had previously gotten away with. Some of them were extremely stupid lies too. One was about him cheating on me (he didn't (or so far as I know) but said he did then took it back...much like you situation). I wouldn't put up with it if I were you.
2006-06-07 20:04:24 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa!!!! Calm down, take a deep breath and think the situation over. How do you know he lying? What are the lies about? Do you love him? Does he love you? Then base your judgement on a clean rational mind. Don't provoke an argument.
2006-06-07 20:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by cableguy91343 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know what you are asking. What do you think he lying about. It all depends on how serious the lie is about. Maybe he feels that he cant tell you everything. There are just some things that you cant tell people. I'm sure everything is fine.
2006-06-07 20:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by MUSiCk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him out! I had one of these, and eventually you'll be doubting yourself so much, you won't know what to believe. He is not treating you well, if he can't treat you better than this, and show you more respect, he is so not worth it. Start fresh, you can do better.
2006-06-07 20:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are SO many guys out there! Find one who thinks you hung the stars. You deserve no less!!!
2006-06-07 20:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him things slip out when you're arguing, trust me he meant that. he only wants you for bragging rights and sex.
2006-06-07 20:01:26 · answer #9 · answered by cgychele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get away from him. my x husband did the samething for 14 years. once a lier always one. get out..... be strong.. dump him!
2006-06-07 20:12:14 · answer #10 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋