My ex boyfriend whom I haven't seen or spoken to in five years is driving an hour and a half to see me this Sunday. Does he want to just hang out and reminisce or is he looking for a piece?
2006-06-07 12:51:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, so we broke up almost five years ago, and then we had some ex sex. The last time we had the ex sex, I remember looking into his eyes and seeing nothing. He just wanted a nut. I refused to take his calls after that (although he did call a lot) and a month and a half ago I got a wild hair up my butt and called him. He called me yesterday and said he wanted to come up. I don't know how I feel, just that I don't hate him anymore, which means that I don't love him either. Oh, he's also getting a divorce.
2006-06-07 13:05:02 · update #1
who cares what he wants, what do you want?
make sure that before you see him you are sure of your feelings.
2006-06-07 12:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lori 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should ask him before he arrives. Maybe he wants to make amends for hurting you in the past, or maybe he wants to tell you he is gay.
Call him and tell him that you're a little curious as to why he's so determined to see you after such a long time.
2006-06-07 19:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had that happen before. Could it be possible that he just got dumped and is looking for a quick replacement? That's what happened to me. I'd be cautious and find out what the deal is before getting too involved.
2006-06-07 19:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by Ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just come right out and ask him what his intentions are? I know that through the years I have reconnected with old flames over lunch just to visit. Hell, this last one stuck! We were apart for over 20 years and now we have been together for two. You just never know!
2006-06-07 19:54:57 · answer #4 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to handle this is just to go with the flow and don't bother thinking about it. Because he himself probably doesn't know why he is doing this. So, just take it casually and try to have fun.
2006-06-07 19:55:50 · answer #5 · answered by uu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha. He wants some! Besides an hour and a half isn't that long. If he gets it, sweet. If not, whatever! At least he's try'n.
2006-06-07 19:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by Bigfoot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No idea
just be prepared.. you may need to put a sign "beware of my foot"..
there is nothing wrong if you both are available and you think that there might be a chance back..
keep us posted..
2006-06-07 19:56:38 · answer #7 · answered by KnightSaber2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be either. If you agreed to see him, then you don't truly hate him. He might also be working on forgiveness, and wants to apologize in person.
2006-06-07 19:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by Georgia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing B) The piece.
2006-06-07 19:54:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea.
1. You didn't say if your break up was angry or friendly.
2. You didn't say if you wanted to talk to him.
3. You didn't say how you feel about him now.
If he just wants to talk, and you want to talk to him, go for it.
If you don't want to talk to him, don't be there when he arrives.
2006-06-07 19:57:21 · answer #10 · answered by Lorrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OF A** sorry to say .
I mean no guy would just drive down to see to hang-out unless he's gay.
2006-06-07 19:55:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋