well can you? I mean every boy i talk to thinks that i like them and want to get with them and they are wrong. So can you be just friends
2006-06-07 12:31:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you obviously have a naturally flirty style and you shouldn't try to change that. You can be just friends but it is easier to befriend boys when you have a boyfriend and they feel 'safer'
2006-06-07 20:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by minerva 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have many guy friends, it's definitely possible. Now that doesn't mean the guy might not have feelings for you, or deep down inside wishes he'll earn your trust so he can be with you. I have a lot of guy friends that are there for me and support me, though I know they like me, but they care for me in general so that's why they are there. My best friend was a guy, and we were attracted to each other, but we never kissed or anything, and he was there for me through everything! (Until he passed away) And my boyfriend now, at first, thought it wasn't possible for a guy to be friends with a girl, especially a good-looking one, but I proved him wrong with all my guy friends, and he accepts it now, and does believe guys and girls can be friends.
2006-06-07 19:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by Lizzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can be friends with blokes if you don't sleep with them first. I have been in a situation where I have slept with someone and then tried to be friends. It is hard to make it work if one of you likes the other one more than they like you. It is a difficult one!
2006-06-14 10:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by mcminx368 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is possible to be just friends...but not with just about any boy. I have noticed there are the kind that have girl friends that are just friends, and the ones that have girl friends...but they are really not just "friends" cause they sometimes make out or flirt or whatever.
2006-06-07 19:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard question. Most of the time NO... but I've had a couple of really best friend that were guys.
2006-06-07 19:35:27 · answer #5 · answered by Princess C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im starting to think you can't just "be friends" close friends at least. a casual friend that you say hi to every now and then, yes, but not a close one
2006-06-07 19:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you can, i have the same problem that most guys i talk to end up fancying me, so my fiance doesnt like that much, but i think as long as a guy knows he cant have you, then you can just be friends. (",)
2006-06-07 19:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by - 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. you can. my three best friends are boys. after my first boyfriend, i didnt like being used like a trophy so then i resolved that guys would only be friends. none of that love crap.
2006-06-07 19:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by Raven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, in my experience so far, l don't think they can be.
Even if the two people involved ARE JUST FRIENDS, everyone else always assumes theres more to it
2006-06-08 05:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by London girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had this guy friend but he liked me so much we ended up going out but i think you still can just be friends with them just explain yourself
2006-06-07 19:44:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋