you guys know that i keep asking questions about boyfriends i dated him for 2 wks and i love him but theres one prolblem im a virgin and his step mom said that we were having sex and were totally not! i havent even held his hand yet and i dont want to be broken up yet i like him to much so what do i do about this siutation i love him and i dont want to lose him please help me out guys thanks!!!!!
2006-06-07 12:23:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are infatuated you cannot love someone in 2 weeks you probaly have a long ways to go in life untiil you find your true love. But in the meanwhile you need to assure him mom that you and him are not doing nothing. And as far as the sex part you need to hold off because you will probaly not be with him forever and you will regret that you did have sex with him. So take your time and make this a learning expierence.
2006-06-07 12:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by msmelissahernandez28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to know; two months ago you thought you were pregnant and now you are claiming you are a virgin? If you 'thought' you were pregnant and have never had sex than you are not old enough for sex with this guy. The average length of time a person 'stays together' in middle school is one week. Congratulations on making it to the two week mark. DON'T have sex to celebrate. See if you can stay together for a year - then another - then another. If he is the guy for you HE WILL WAIT!!!
The average length of time for a 'couple' in high school is one month. You haven't even made it that far yet. The average length of time for a 'couple' in college is a year. You still have a long way to go. Again, give it time. I guy's hormones are in overdrive at this age. He thinks with his dick first, then his heart. A guy needs to be much older (like in college or LATER) to be able to think with his heart first, and then his dick.
2006-06-08 10:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by Mermaid Sirena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are quick, but not necessarily cost free, way to show the boy's mother she is wrong. You can have her pay for a physical and get your parents permission to share the details that a doctor deem you still a virgin. But since these days most youngsters don't consider anything but vaginal coitus sex, you might have to agree to take a polygraph if she is willing to spring the dough.
"Like", and "love" are often confused as cut from the same cloth. Actually it is not. Upon closer inspection you will see love is the silk to the likes satin.
Like: You may think of him all the time. May like him parsonality, his habbits. May even get frisky with him or get boned down by him in the bedroom. But you will not sell out for him. He is like a vacation home. You know you are not going to retire there. Or move your furniture there. Like can put up with a lot, but there is a breaking point where if they did it one more time, you are gon. Or if they did something bad enough, gone. You do nice things BUT, more so that you want to get them to like you and that is the catalyst to your politeness. Like: is like a lease, love is like ownership
Love: He makes you want to be better than you are, each day. You find that you are willing to sell out, to give up EVERYTHING you own and know to make sure his tomorrow is better than today, which was in turn, better than yesterday. You would give your life that he may life. You would go hungry that he might be fed. To go cold that he may stay warm. You do this because you really want him to be safe, protected and comfortable. Not just because you want him to like you. Love is you would cherish him even if he didn't love you back, and there was no quid pro quot. Love is like having a home you are eager to move your furniture into, and do not want to move out once you have it in there. Love endures no matter what transgression is done. It is a total surrender of your heart to the other, no strings attached. The hurt maybe there, and you may never forget it. But you are willing to forgive or at least deal with it.
Now which are you really?
2006-06-07 19:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Earn parents trust by not doing things that make them think you're having sex (ie being late, hanging out in his room all the time). Spend more time with him where she can see you interacting.
Also there's a difference between a crush and love.
2006-06-07 19:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by daisy519 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...first, and lastly. if you are in "LOVE" after two weeks, you need to get a grip and you are definitely too young for sex.
2006-06-07 19:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by DM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to his mom possibly that might help
2006-06-07 19:26:38 · answer #6 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋