An X calls out of nowhere,after 1 and a half years of not speaking and ignoring you, he asks you how you are and says its been such a long time since you and him talked that you guys should get together and catch-up?!You guys were only together for a couple of months..What would you think and say?
*I did ask a similar question but didn't explain it right therefore didn't get a good answer"
2006-06-07 12:15:52 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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Well i thought about this one, when my ex and i broke up, we only dated for a couple of months but we were like best friends. We ended in a stupid way, we just stopped talking well he was ingnoring me and i to him and so forth.
But if he ever rang me back after so long like in your case, yeah i would catch up with him. I would make sure i looked my best and meet him somewhere, to show how much i have grown and how much i look better. If i were you honey i'd meet him and dress real hot. Don't talk about what went wrong, if he was ignoring you well its his loss. And rub it in his face and show him how much he's missed.
Thats what i did once, i met with another of my ex's who said similar things along that line, and he saw me, and after our interlude, he rang me back and asked me out again after 3yrs. what do you think i did??? I just said, sorry i just wana be friends, even though i thought we had something going on, but i realised, he ignored me and played around. I was over it and so i met him just for a coffee, and he was wishin he had never let go of me!!
SO basically, if i were you, i would be friends, sometimes if you and your ex were good friends, its good to keep it that way, cos you both know alot about eachother from the past. But dont forget the reason you broke up, remember why it ended and dont fall for the i still love you crap, cos if they did, honey they would of never left the picture. And even if they left for a bit, it doesent take 1 1/2yrs to realise and come back.
I would talk about all the good things that i have done( rub it in their faces) all the ppl i've met, and so forth. You know the best revenge on ex's is success. You dont have to hate eachtoher, you can be good friends, but it will kill him for ever letting you go and not contacting you all this time.
make sure you look super hot!!!! But leave it as friends. By the way my ex and i are still good friends. I know in his eyes he wants me, but thats the beauty of break ups, you have control of the situation, and you can think things through and move on, whilst still being good friends or not
2006-06-07 12:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person i guess...maybe the ex considered you a very good friend and thought about you and really just wants to catch up or see you again out of plain friendship style feelings,...or maybe it could be that he wants to see if he can get back together with you again. I think it depends on the type of relationship you had and why you broke up in the first place.
2006-06-07 19:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends, why did you stop talking to eachother? and are you in another relationship now? If you left that situation due to unhealthy reasons then let it be, dont forget why hes the ex in the first place, secondly, if you are in another relationship--ignore the ex,,its the devils temptations...its a test! And lastly, if theres no bad blood between you two, and yes its been over a year, what the hell! go catch up, have a good time, maybe he has grown up in that period of time and realizes what he had in you...cant hurt!
2006-06-07 19:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by Panthers Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as there were no one else feelings to consider I'd say let's get it on....Have coffee or something and chat for a while catch up see if you want it to go any further right then and there if not go on with your life. It's been going ok for a while.
2006-06-07 19:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by mygirl971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to remind yourself why (exactly) you are not together any longer.
There must be a reason.
AND, are you willing to go through it again.
Is he worth it?
Does he just wanna get in your panties?
Why is he back, and why was he gone in the first place.
Remember the feelings he left you to deal with alone last time?
2006-06-07 19:22:22 · answer #5 · answered by crystlizm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you will get together only if he promises to go down on you 10 times a day.
2006-06-07 19:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll tell you the same thing i'll tell anyone else--he's your ex for a reason. he probably just got out of a relationship and is looking for some comfort, and you're actually considering it. i don't, but maybe you are desperate...it's been a year and half and you're still single; so, perhaps you want to go for it.
2006-06-07 19:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll bet you he just wants a booty call. Once a relationship is over, ITS OVER. If he really wants to be friends(and YOU really want that) see him in public like a coffee shop, but be warned, he'll probably want to see you at home or something. I could be wrong but its your call (and integrity).
2006-06-07 19:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by DM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your choice hun if you still have feelings for him and he still has feeling for you also then you two need to get together and start talking and see where it leads and think about why you two split up and is it worth it to go back into the relationship
2006-06-07 19:21:15 · answer #9 · answered by silvereagle1125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id really wonder if it was a booty call really
and yeah u need to explain this one better to.
what were your feelings ,what was the reason for the breakup
who dumped who?
details woman!
2006-06-07 19:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by quasidivine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋