I hate everyone as soon as I meet them. I always judge them right off the gun before I even know them. After a while I start to like that person. Why do I do that so much?? I soooo mean to people. I don't know how to change that.
2006-06-07 12:02:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I always dislike people when I first meet them too. I usually grow to like them. i think it's a defense thing. I'm usually meaner to the nicer people they seem so weak it's easy to walk all over them. I feel bad too. But I just can't help myself
2006-06-07 14:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by pieceomind4me 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is probably because you are that hard on yourself. Or maybe its because you already have a standard of how you think people should be, and no one you meet approaches that standard, so you hate them for not being up to par. You are mean to people because you either don't like yourself much, or you like yourself a bit too much. You know which is the case, though.
2006-06-08 01:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by Seven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably have a problem with trust or maybe, and I hate to say it, jealousy. You like to judge a book by its cover, and you are probably insecure. You need to learn to trust other people -AND- yourself, most importantly.
2006-06-07 12:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, so you've got trust issues. It's better than blindly placing trust to every Tom, Dick, & Harry.
But, it would be good for PR sakes to extend courtesy w/ people you've just met. Try it and see if your just as mean.
2006-06-07 12:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by Cassor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should fart on them wile you are being judgmental it's real funny to watch.
2006-06-07 12:39:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's very sad....I'm just the opposite, which is is curse sometimes too.
2006-06-07 12:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by b_friskey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate you too!!!
2006-06-07 12:08:12 · answer #7 · answered by Passion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋