Am I crazy???

Question

There is this guy that I've liked for over a year. I told him that I liked him a while ago and he siad he didn't want to go out with me cause he didn't know me that well, which is true we don't know each other well. He gave me his number so I could call him but he rarely answers. Found out that he was purposefully avoining my calls when I had my friend call to see if he would answer and he did. Now he'll answer but after talking for 2 minutes he'll tell me to call back and when I do he only sometimes answers and will have another excuse. He is real sweet to me in person though and was very helpfull with helping me get over depressoin and anorexia. Am I crazy fo liking him?

My e-mail is [e-mail]

By the way I didn't make him help me. He knew something was wrong and made me talk.

Answer 1

No you're not. what you need to do is forget about me, same thing happened to me and i wasn't that happy. stop calling him, forget about him but you still like him right, i know it's hard but let him come to you okay, don't go to him, let him come and if he doesn't find yourself another guy fast. sorry

Answer 2

Sister friend you are going way to fast for this guy! Slow down and give him some breathing room. Stop calling him so much and give him some time to call you. Yes, this will be hard to do but you can do it! Everytime you want to call him call one of your friends and talk to them. Also you already said you two didn't know each other but you have already shared some really big issues in your life with him (depression and anorexia). Not to mention you burdened him with helping you get through it. This may have scared him off. So sit back and work making youself a better person instead of smoothering him and let him take in everything. And if he wants to start a relastionship he has your number. Good Luck to you!

Answer 3

Did you ever stop to think that maybe he was only being nice. He may only want to be your friend. Besides if he helped you get over some strong hurdles it only means he's a good person not someone you have to get involved with. When you hit on a guy its healthier if you two have things in common. He should have the same reaction you have. Bammo a spark! If he avoids your calls it could mean anything. Like he's already involved, doesn't want to connect for personal reasons, he might be gay, he might not be attracted to you sexually (but generally thinks your nice looking). Just give him space. Guys dont like feeling chained down. Relax sugar. Look elsewhere.

Answer 4

You are not crazy, these are feelings, there is no on and off button, I think if there was everyone would be happy.Anyway, he may not like you or he just doesn't like to talk on the phone.Maybe you shouldn't call him that much and maybe you guys are better off as friends.

Answer 5

Stop talking to him...just keep ur eye out for him...talk to him on some occasions but for the most just stop. He will come to you when hes not gettin "any" lol

Answer 6

may b he's playin u .. u know playin hard to get n all cool .. may b that's y u like him coz he's not so desperate like most guys .. dont worry ur not crazyy hehe .. love is confusing .. but try not to like ppl who dont deserve u n treat u like **** .. in ur case .. do EXACTLY what he's doin to u .. dont answer his callz n blablabla .. he might come runnin after u

Answer 7

he does not like talking on the phone

Answer 8

What is your email address. I want to email you sometime.

Answer 9

nope, your normal