I have a lot of options and I do go on dates here and there (if I really want to or have nothing to do) but I LOVE BEING SINGLE AND by myself.I am just so at peace with myself right now that I don't want anyone and it's been years...IS that wrong??I love doing things I want to do and I don't look for a boyfriend.
2006-06-07 11:30:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually, this is the best state of mind to be in and run into a good relationship. You are confident and content instead of clingy and desperate. You are showing off the best of what you are. If something happens along the way that makes you rethink your single lifestyle, you will be ready to approach it knowing what you have to offer and what you want and expect. And if you never run into that situation, then no, what you are doing in your life is definitely NOT wrong. I only wish that more women knew how to be confident and at peace with themselves instead of rushing headlong into relationships for the sake of having one.
2006-06-07 11:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by peachyone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't remember writing this question... Wow, I guess I'm not wierd. There are others like me. I try to tell myself it's society that tells me I need a man to be whole, not myself. It just seems like too much drama to date a guy I know from the start isn't going to make the cut. I'll wait until someone with potential comes along. I am sure he will. Until then, there is nothing wrong with being happy with where you are now.
2006-06-07 18:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by Gypsy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is great, but it doesn't hurt to have a guy in your life. When you are happy with a guy, it will just feel right and you will feel as happy as when you were single. Its nice to be able to do what you want to do when you want to do it, and not worry about someone else. Just don't be too into yourself and not ever look for the guy of your dreams.
2006-06-07 18:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by seagull_watcher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont rush anything. Live your life by your rules only. If your happy being single, then stay that way. When your ready to share your time with someone, you will be the first to know. Have fun.
2006-06-07 18:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Confused4gender 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope i had that for four years. fiancee was sleeping around and it took a year and then i have had four great years doing what ever i pleased but now i kind of want someone to share that with but until i get fully graduated and settle in a new job seems pointless to try and start something but whatever be happy keep doing what you are doing and maybe you find someone maybe not just be happy.
2006-06-07 18:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people might be a late bloomer and you could be one of them. See all I'm saying is you just don't want to be in a relationship.
See i like guys and i went out with one but i don't think i was ready
2006-06-07 18:34:04 · answer #6 · answered by OuT 46378 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy being single keep it that way when you are ready you will know and it sounds like you wont have a problem finding someone.
2006-06-07 18:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by sonione 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready then you are not ready as long as you are happy then what does it matter? be your self and be happy with what you want. That is the way to be if you get ready then so be it. As long as you are happy I don't think there is any thing wrong.
2006-06-07 18:38:42 · answer #8 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep on enjoying yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Once you are in a relationship you have to compromise... alot.
2006-06-07 18:34:18 · answer #9 · answered by workingclasshero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal especially if you just got out of a bab relationship in my 2 yr relationship was over it took me a yr and a half to start dating again
2006-06-07 18:36:19 · answer #10 · answered by nukkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋