guys only please?

Question

okay guys...if you were at a party, and there were these two types of girls (1 or 2 below) WHICH ONE WOULD YOU TALK TO AND WHY? WHY NOT THE OTHER ONE?
1. a quiet girl, who was only hanging out with her real friends. she was dressed normally, not slutty.
2. a really slutty girl, flirting with everyone. obviously dressed inappropriately.
*if girls want to answer, which kind of girl would you rather be around?

Answer 1

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A girl who hangs out with only a select group of friends and does not engage in other conversation at a party is nearly impossible to talk to because she will bee seen as snobby. It is incredibly difficult for a guy to go into an existing group of girls and try to talk to one of them. On the other hand, a girl who is very outgoing and flirts with several different people will be easy to start a conversation with. This sort of behavior will be viewed as liberating and fun.

That being said, guys don't really want to talk to #2, they want to do her.

I think you need to look at a compromise, you don't have to dress inappropriately but going outside of your circle will net you more friends and will allow guys to talk to you. Flirting is not a bad thing.

Answer 2

Kind of a leading question there. It would be nice if I could talk to the nice, quiet, normally dressed girl. We could develop a friendship, then a relationship, get married and have some lovely children. However, that girl is 'only hanging out with her real friends' and I'm not one of her real friends, am I. I would be potentially embarrassed if I tried to break into her circle and chat her up. She's not helping me out at all. With a girl like that, I have to do ALL the work and who needs that?

See, the thing is, It doesn't sound like you and most guys have the same ideas about appropriate party attire, flirting or sluttiness. Why would I be at a party with a dress code? If I was, I'd probably be inappropriately dressed and hanging with the sluts. It's easier and more fun that way.

Answer 3

Just because a girl is dressing provocative, it doesn´t always mean she´s a slutty one.
In other cases, no matter what you wear if you have a certain type of body (curvaceus one), you´ll look a little bit "too much" even if you´re wearing really "normal" clothes......
and you can dress like a nun and be a total slut in bed, as well.

Answer 4

First of all "Beggers cant be choosers" I would surely go for the 2nd one... the first one will take ages to come out of her shell and to open up as a freind... and remember this is juts a party...time is limited.
May be if this was in High School then i would go for the 1st one as time is not a factor over here to make friendship and beyond

hope this helps.... and yes being extorvert is an art and not everyone is good at it... so in my opinion the 2nd one has and art which we need to appreciate.

Answer 5

It depends on the quit girl be snobby and not talking to me because she's to stuck up. If the girls in group 1 are acting that way, the its on to the slutty girls.

Answer 6

#1

Answer 7

a quiet girl might be more slutty in the bed... you gave 2 extreeme examples... i think those charachteristics are not main to decide but at the party, i would take a flirty one!

Answer 8

Experance has shown me that the quiet ones usually turn out to be the better choice. But that is a generalization.
Sometimes the out going person is fun.
It really depends on each person, what each person wants.

Answer 9

i usally prefer slutty girls,buecause they are more ferindly and cool and i am really relax with them and they always have somthings new that makes you never tired of them....and ummm about sex also it's really easly to do and more enjoy cuz they have enough exprience.
and most important thing that she never have any invidual expect you.
but if i looking for a girl who have romance relation with her,so logicaly i prefer a quiet girl cuz this type of grils are under my control i mean she just thinks to me no others.
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Answer 10

usually a take 1+2 even for fun