Are you a male or female now?, It is harder to make females into males,(much more expensive too) you need to do much counseling as this is a big step. It is right for some, but other find out that they actually had other issues that they needed to work out. In the 1980s there was a special on HBO about this and they had this guy who wanted to be a woman and because he was short of money skipped the counseling and the hormone treatments and the breast implants and just had his gear removed and formed into a vagina. Well after awhile he decided that he had made a big mistake and wanted his gear back but could not afford it. It was very pathetic, he even tried to get California's worker comp to pay for putting his gear back.
Shemale are not females turned into guys, they are guys with breast implants and female hormone treatments.
2006-06-07 10:44:25
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answered by redtinydawg 3
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Jessica,
I have a friend named Chris, he or she... she is now named Jessica as well, she was once a guy that I was friends with and nows is an even better friend since she's gotten the sex change and identity crisis over with. She's much happier now and I love her for that. But about your question, do what you think is right. If you feel that you're the wrong gender, then by all means do the change, but from Jessica's experience, she had to fill out tons of paper work and also pay ALOT of money. Luckly her parents were VERY supportive. And that's the most important aspect to have when going through these tough decisions.
I say go a head, but after the surgery, it'll hurt for a good month. I know that Jessica was not able to move for a month because she could tear the stiches that she had. If you're going to go ahead with it, then I make sure you have a lot of support, because money can always be made, but a decision can only be made once. If you have no supporters, I'll support you. Power to you Jessica.
2006-06-07 10:41:40
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answered by dukeofhmong 3
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why do you think that you need to be a girl? if you become a girl/shemale, would you then sleep with guys? if so, then why not just be a queeny gay guy? think about it--straight guys wont want you and gay guys are going to be attracted to men, not shemales.
or if you plan on sleeping with girls, then just stay as a man. either way, if i was you i'd wait a while and see if i still feel the same way about doing it.
2006-06-07 11:00:31
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answered by Anonymous
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i think it's wrong, but that's really none of your concern
please, though, at least consult a psychologist or something before making such a monumental decision. Perhaps you will discover that you don't really want this, and it is just coming from outside pressures that can be dealt with in other ways.
Self-acceptance is always a good thing.
2006-06-07 10:44:44
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answered by Anonymous
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I think if it is what you want to do you should but just remember once it is done there is no going back. You and your family are the only ones that have to live with the decision you make so make sure it is something you really want.
2006-06-07 10:39:54
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answered by starlightpixie69 1
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I'm a girl and I wouldn't even change the sex on my avatar.....I will never change my she and become a she/male........
If being you is not working out then how will being something else help you.....
Don't be a follower, be a leader!
2006-06-07 10:40:17
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answered by Tuff Love! 3
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damn be yourself. Don't go start cutting all over your body and all. Just stay u. You will live longer
2006-06-07 10:43:26
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answered by angie418 2
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Your body belongs to GOD, you don't have the right to change anything!
2006-06-07 10:42:08
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answered by sunshyne1519 3
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depends how u look and how you wish to look
2006-06-07 10:36:54
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answered by isor 1
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what they said
2006-06-07 10:47:36
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answered by samantha wilson 5
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