this is only for guys not girls?

Question

what do look for in a girl personalty, looks, hair, butt, chest or if they are nice,sweet and smart. also why

Answer 1

I am 36, and by that time, personality is all that really matters, because you realize that you are not perfect either, but you can ALWAYS modify behavior...

Answer 2

Well this is such a hard question and i don't know were to begin. So i will describe the ideal girl for me.

Personality:
She would be easy going.
She must not turn what i say into an insult when it was not intended
She would not get into moods for no reason
When she gets into moods at least let me know what their about.
She must be optomistic without being one of those silly giddy optomists.
She would listen to what other people say and not be ignorant.
She is not negative about things out of her control.
She comes up with alternatives to problems not other problems.
(Your either part of the problem or your part of the solution)
She would be open minded to other suggestions

Humour:
She would have a good sense of humour without feeling the need to tells crap jokes.
Her humour would be funny but very dirty at the same time.
She would not feel the need to laugh at every joke everybody told.

Demeanor:
She would not be loud and a mouth piece yet she would not be shy and dismissive.
She would express her opinions without feeling the need to tell everyone they were wrong.
She would not go along with everything i say.
She would carry herself with confidence but not arrogance.

Looks:
Well groomed & clean
Not a massive ammount of make up on.
Not too fake.
Concious about the little things in her appearance.

Hair:
Well maintaned and clean

Butt:
Don't care but not saggy

Chest:
See Butt

Nice:
Depends how nice. Don't won't too nice. Don't want a door mat.

Sweet:
Only being sweet when i take her to my Mother's

Smart:
Intellectually stimulating without the need to come across as a BRAIN. Arrogance is a vulgar quality.

The most important SEX:
She would be fun in bed without feeling she is in a competition and comparing what she does with what her friends do.
She would be open to try new things.
She would not be shy with her clothes off. 70% of women are hot with their clothes off. FACT
She would be touchy and feely.
She would not only be touchy and feely in public (I hate performers).
She would be able to laugh during sex and not take it all too serious.

So their. I think i have described nearly everything. I know these are almost all impossible to find in one girl (Nor do i want them all). But i hope i have provided a goood guide.

Answer 3

Intelligent - stimulating conversation and provides inspiration and confidence.

Common Sense - gives me confidence in her.

Can be independent and is self assured - isn't in a relationship because she needs to be taken care of and looked after. She is in a relationship because she enjoys my company. Also means we can do things independently sometimes (we all need some space occasionally).

Has a sense of humour - makes life all the more fun and helps to get through difficult times.

Able to laugh at herself - no one should take themselves too seriously or you'll end up depressed and stressed out. Also demonstrates a positive mindset.

Affectionate - we all like to feel loved or show love and kindness.

Financially stable - she doesn't need to be rich, just responsible with money. I don't want her being chased around the country by the bailiffs.

Good natured - kind and friendly.

Good hearted - feels moral obligations.

Sexy - well we've all got to have some fun!

Answer 4

all of them lol... well.. butt, personalty, smart, looks, nice, hair...butt-i just like a nice ***...personality- well u probably gonna spend alot of time with her so u better be able to mesh with hers so u can enjoy being around each other...smart- u want to be able to talk to her bout different things w/out her looking at u like u got 3 heads...looks-ur having sex w/ this person u should be attracted to them...nice- i dont think i have to explain this...hair- and well nice hair is just well nice hair lol

Answer 5

Boths... unlike girls us guys don't like B-female dog (actually thats insulting one as most dogs I met were nice)s like you girls like guys who treat you bad.

So would want nsomeone nice...

Nice dont mean boring... I like naughty but nice, cheeky, fun as well and nice.


But all nice and no looks or sexiness = buddy girl.

So gril who is great to be with and sexy with nice bod and who likes attracting attention to it is good.

Unfortunetley guys are attracted to boobs. Like like you have hypotising magnets (think the snake off jungle book). Can't help it and may take an inordinable amount of effort to look up enough so you girls don't get annoyed.

It does not mean thats all guys are interested in. it means you have a means of controlling guys ie if playing chess you can break are concentration.

Likewise think about yourself... Do all girls fancy the geekiest, spec wearing smart guy in school all the time into computers, all brainy but lacking in muscells and cool?


Or the sweet one who really likes you but you see him as your brother and gay at that.


Same thing

Answer 6

You never can tell. With some girls it's the vulnerability that fosters a 'let me take care of you' sense in a guy, sometimes, it's the admiration of an independent girl, who can take care of herself. Hint: Most guys, whatever the age, will have their day made and their head turned, if a girl pays them a little attention. They are usually hung up on their insecurities, as much as girls are on theirs. While girls are thinking 'I'm too fat/thin, my boobs/bum are too big/small my hair/eyes are the wrong colour, the guys are thinking 'I'm not tall/broad/butch/smart/funny/good looking-enough to talk to her.

Go for it.

Answer 7

I look for a woman that has a friendly, slightly fiesty personality first. I can look at their eyes and see if they really love life by seeing if their eyes smile!!! Then I look at the intelligence level, don't like women that are too stupid and needy, and then I look at the physical attributes. everything should be proportional in size....well maybe the breasts could be a little larger than proportional. :)

Answer 8

I think we are attracted to the opposite sex by those physical attributes we like most; hair, eyes, chest, butt, legs, etc. Once past that it is personality that keeps the attraction.

Answer 9

All of them combined. You see, it's often about compromise, chances are we'll never find the perfect girl, but what she lacks in one area, she may have more of in another area. A hot girl with a horrible personality doesn't peak my interests. So, yeah.., it's more of a combined type deal.

Answer 10

I like girls with nice personaility. If you go with someone just cos of their looks then it will end in tears, because they will not always look that good.