i have liked my bf since junior year in high school. We started dating in highschool but broke up right away. Now 2 years later we are trying again. I have trust issues with him and he seems to think that at times i can be a nagging *****. We have been dating 2 weeks now and things finally seem to be settling in. Its weird because im like wating for him to screw up. I honestly love this boi now and we've even talked about marriage and **** like that. Are we going to make it?
2006-06-07 09:40:59 · 20 answers · asked by andrea lynn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now, this is my favorite one: 'Let him go, if he comes back, he is yours, if he does'nt, he never was'
I believe in this, because it happened to me.
I am guessing he cheated on you, or something.. and now you have trust issues.
Happens!!
Dont wait for him to screw up, it wont work. I know, because I waited for my gf to screw up after she cheated and we got back.
You will only end up screwing your thought process!!
What you are doing right this time to you are a lot mature and hopefully going slow. Which is good.
Love him for what he is to you and for what he will be for you tomorrow. Dont resuscitate the past.
I strongly feel you are going to make it. Just take it one day at a time, discussing your future and stuff is good and sounds ideal, but if you have had trust issues, I would not recommend you make long term plans.
What say??
Cheers!!
2006-06-07 10:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by stillfreezing 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
It's only natural to be hesitant with trusting him and waiting for him to fail. If you really love him, then you'll have some faith that soemthing is going to be different. If things are different this time around then I think that things should work out just fine. But you both have to be patient with each other and learn to let things go. There's always going to be those things that bother us about somebody, but you just have to look past them and find the good. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-07 16:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by peek a boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe!! He seems to like u enough to change a little bit to make u happy!! u may haven't realized it yet but he would probably do anything to make u happy at this point!! I think u need to relax and take things slowly! Stop waiting for him to mess up, u may ruin a great relationship over a small feeling!
2006-06-07 16:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by chelsea4fowler84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of sounds like me and my boyfriend. Since high school, so you guys were probably each others first love, and if you both decided to try again you still must have strong feelings for each other. And 75% of first loves who get back together end up getting married, so yeas, odds are that you will last.
⥠:)
2006-06-07 16:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Interpreted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to have a relationship you have to have trust..if you dont trust him then you shouldn't be with him. I believe if you both really want it then it will work out..if you both actually try. Love isnt something that you just throw around you gotta want it and be happy when it comes.
Good Luck!
2006-06-07 16:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by Kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think since you have know each other for so long....you should try to be more secure....cause that's the real cause of jealousy..."insecurity"...unfortunately... i could only imagine how well you know each others likes n dislikes and that's something really special...try to trust him even if it eats u inside ....don't let him see that... try it!! wish you the best of luck!!!!!
2006-06-07 16:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by GiNa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In short youre not. But this is your first love and at some point will break your heart more than you can ever think. Itll end and youll find Mr Right at some point.
2006-06-07 16:43:01 · answer #7 · answered by smutmonkey71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things will only work if both of u truly work things out and talk about things that might bother one another so u can get a head start on problems that might occur.
2006-06-07 16:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by tender_n_sweet1023 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no. Since you've only been with him two weeks you don't truly love him, you are just infatuated with him. With both of your pessimism, it's pretty much doomed to failure.
2006-06-07 16:42:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you will have hard times but battle through it. If this one doesn't last, then it's just good to be friends
2006-06-07 16:42:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋