My girl is one hot looking chic, she's also very sweet and really digs me. But I have one BIG problem.
She just CANNOT be quiet. And what makes matters worse she's always talking about stupid stuff like "should I got get my pedicure done before or after I get my eyebrows arched"
YUCK!!! Who really gives a f***! But I can't tell her that. I've tried to tune her out but her voice has this whine that's really irritating. When we first met I thought I met an angel. Now with her incessant yapping I'm about to get a gun and blow my brains out!
I've taked to her many times about always, always taking but she just cant stop.
Help! I'm gonna go crazy ...or get a gun
2006-06-07 09:30:27 · 33 answers · asked by johnny z 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ugh!! in my opinion Girls like that won't stop. And there is no nice way to tell her to "shut the f*** up! without hurting her feelings. Maybe you should just date someone new. Because unless your willing to put up with it, she's is going to continue to get on your nerves.
2006-06-07 09:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by oaklandolee 4 · 7⤊ 4⤋
1.) DO NOT get a gun!
2.) I see you have tried talking to her. Well words to some people don't mean ne thing. (So i know you don't wanna be mean and take ne chance of ending the relationship on accident. ) But you gotta either use those words you stated you won't say to her. Or you can not use words at all. What i'm mean is show her with actions. No don't knock her one in the face. But use actions. Like walk away or something when ever she starts talking bout nails, eyebrows,etc etc. Eventually she will wonder why everytime she says something you keep walking away. So either she'll stop talking or come to you and ask why you walk away. And if she asks. Tell her in the nicest way possible. And if she never gets over it. At least you tried. GOOD LUCK!
2006-06-07 09:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by I Luv Joel Madden!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tune her out - because if she's anything like me she'll throw in some important stuff in with all the crap. I've had the same problem, some people just don't get the phrase "comfortable silence". I think you just need to emphasize again how annoying this is and how you really do not want to tune her out but you are starting to because of the subject matter.
Maybe you could also start some conversations about topics that are more interesting to you than pedicures.
2006-06-07 09:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you start by saying "she is one hot chick".I don't know your age but it sounds like you put outer beauty before brains and inner beauty.It's taken a long time to figure out that beauty IS in the eyes of the beholder.I think you need to look at the whole package and decide for yourself if she posseses the qualities YOU are looking for.If after evaluating all aspects of the relationship,if you don't think she has All the qualities you seek,then the relationship isn't going to go far anyway.Then the choice is up to you wether you want to be with a "hot chick" that drives you crazy,or be with someone that has ALL the great things that you want your girl to have so that YOU BOTH enjoy each others company.
2006-06-07 09:47:09 · answer #4 · answered by VROD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two are spending too much time together. You may want to try having a time frame that you get together. You may also try having at least one or two nights a week where the two of you hang out with your own friends, away from each other.
2006-06-07 09:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by Dei B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wrote: "YUCK!!! Who really gives a f***! But I can't tell her that."
Why not??
Strongly suggest she and her girlfriends to the pedicure/eye brow thingy.
When she starts yapping, try holding a finger up and let her know she is yapping.
Just because you two have differences, that is no reason to dump her. No one is perfect.
Keep reminding her! Good luck!
2006-06-07 09:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by menndebi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need some help- no matter how hot you think this girl is - if you can't stand her that much than don't be with her. She deserves someone who appreciates all her little quirks without trying to change her anyway- wish you the best of luck.
2006-06-07 09:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by Angie's mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to find a quieter angel. I am reading that she is HOT and that she is sweet and she really digs YOU, but you say nothing about loving her. So... Let Chatty Cathy go and find someone more suitable to your style.. otherwise you live in misery and end up torturing both of you.
2006-06-07 09:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, that's the price you have to pay for a hot chic!!! Stuff some cotton balls in your ears and just keep smiling and nodding.
2006-06-07 09:37:16 · answer #9 · answered by loveable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u dnt like her the way she is ... u dnt like her n e ways.. u think u like her jst coz shes one hot chic ... if thts what u want in a gf...
something else u can do is ... make her read this link ... probably she'll understand :)
2006-06-07 09:40:20 · answer #10 · answered by Rays_Ur_Ways 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are in the relationship with her just for her looks and didn't try to get to know the real her. Well, here she is! You gotta take it or leave it.
2006-06-07 09:34:05 · answer #11 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋