Bless the Lord!?

Question

I am so glad everyone helped me through the hard time i was going through! Thanks, and I love you all very much! you are a blessing to me!
well, My boyfriend did it again. Last night, he told me hes going to call the cops, and never talk to me again. He told me hes not a virgin, hes slept with 2 girls. He told me today he loves me, and that he said all that to upset me.

Well, since all of you helped me and God helped me, i didn't care. I told him i aint going to believe him anymore, and that i deserve better! I said to him to leave me alone, and to live life without me. He said no he can't, but im not going to believe him.

Then after i put a happy away on, he left along thing saying hes going to have sex with girls, and that he never loved me.

I don't care, cause theres a guy out there whos a virgin. that will treat me like a gem that i am.

If he talks to me again, what should i say? Am i doing good so far?

This struggle is hard, but i got through it!

I love you all

Answer 1

Don't you think it's sad to look for personal support from strangers on the internet? Do you have any real friends?

Answer 2

This guy is very manipulative and it obviously makes him angry when you call his bluff. I don't know your whole story, but I am assuming that you are a virgin, and that is an asset that this guy is looking to steal from you. It would be a trophy to him. What ever you do, DON'T let him have you in that way. When he sees how serious you are about keeping your virginity, he will eventually leave you alone, and probably spread rumors about you along the way. But, remember that he cannot hurt you, you belong to God. He can say all the hurtful stuff to you or about you that he wants to, but the words he will speak are just untrue myths. Read Philippians 4:8. This is how God wants us to think. He doesn't want us to concentrate on the bad, only the good.

Answer 3

God didn't fix anything, you did. Stop using God as a crutch and get on with your life. Dump this guy and keep looking for that nice Christian Virgin you are so keen on finding (good luck with that). Then when you get married you can realize that waiting until marriage was a stupid idea.

Answer 4

I am not familiar with your story, but just keep reminding yourself that God's word is true. If God says that you will have the desires of your heart, believe. If God says the he will not harm you in anyway, believe. But, I know its hard especially getting out of a relationship that wanted to work. Now, since you know that God never fails, ask yourself, what is it that is best for me. Its a process. You have to go "through" the fire to get "to" the fire. "Through" meaning process, "to" meaning purpose!

Answer 5

The best thing you can do is to steer clear of this guy. He sound like an abuser. It is obvious he likes to inflict emotional pain on you. If you let him back into your life, you are just asking for trouble. Find someone who deserve you ,and the love you have to offer.

Answer 6

Hmmm I don't know your story, but it seems very hard and depressing. I'm glad you're feeling better. If he tries to talk to you again, do whatever you can to keep him away from you. Don't talk to him. If he is a jerk and goofed off, then let him be. You'll find someone else who deserves you.

Answer 7

It's good that you're not believing him. He doesn't sound very trustworthy. There are other guys that will definitely treat you better. Pray for him and other guys like him. God will get you through!

Answer 8

You did great, just forget that immature guy. I wish you the best.PS my 21 year old son is a virgin, they are still some out there.

Answer 9

Just relly on God and pray about it. He will help ytou through whatever you are going through.

Answer 10

if he talks to you again tell him to shove it up his *ss because you're too smart for a loser like him.

oh, and the right guy for you may not be a virgin, don't throw him away because he isn't. no one's perfect to be honest.