ive like someone for quite a while, i think they might like me back, but i cant be sure.
2006-06-07 08:45:54 · 41 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow. Good question. Guys come in two types, 1. Stupid about girls; 2. Players.
Category 1 can produce some good catches for a girl, but can be hard to read. What you have to do is watch out that you're not falling for a category 2. A 'Player' is a guy who will play a girl, or anyone else, for a fool to get what he wants. In other words, he doesn't really give a crap about anyone other than himself but will act like he does in order to use someone. There is nothing good about a 'player'. He will bring you nothing but pain and disappointment.
I know it is hard to have a crush on someone and still think straight about them. But what you need to be asking yourself is, "What's in this for me?" Meaning - take care of yourself first. What you need to ask here is: a. does this guy like you better than baseball (for example); b. does he like you better than his buddies; c. does he like you better than his car.
Don't let yourself get used! No sex. If you make the no sex thing clear, and stand up for yourself, and don't give him money - and he still hangs around, he still makes time for you, AND he buys gifts for you on your birthday and sometimes just because he saw something nice and thought of you - you may have a winner. He might just really like you.
My wife and I have been married nearly 22 years. I think she finally believes I really like her. Point being - it takes some time to figure out if someone is legit or just playing you. Don't just fall head over heals the first time 'he' walks up and talks to you. Most guys 'like' most girls, especially girls who like them. That's a given. A heck of a lot of guys are also spoiled, egotistical, self-centered jerks who don't care about anyone but themselves. You look out for your own best interests, and try not to get used. Keep your standards high, and one day one of the category 1 guys will wake up, meet those standards, and make you a very happy lady.
2006-06-07 12:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by rumplesnitz 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
He treats you with respect. He may look at others but doesn't ogle them and looks away. You have enough in common to have a fun and easy time. You have enough that is different that you don't get bored. Silence is comfortable.
Watch him, don't make him think your insecure. IF he likes insecurity then maybe things should be thought.
If all else fails, Do a pro and con list or ASK HIM. better to find out now before you end up gaining twenty pounds after he gets scared away and dumps you.
He may be relieved to know that you feel the same way about him and start another whole new part of the relationship to build upon. The more the foundation the better the structure.
2006-06-21 04:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Shannon S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many different ways to tell if someone has in interest in you. The most common are:
-he tries to make you laugh
-he asks you questions
-he tries to make you talk about yourself
-he asks for your phone number or Email
-he gives you a compliment
-he blushes when you talk to him
-you see he gets nervous when you're around
-he's nervous while talking to you (hands, eyes, voice...usually you can notice because he's doing too much
-he can't help making eye-contact with you
-he tries to be with you
-he offers you something
These are very common ways to know if a guy likes you, give it some tme and see how many of these qualities he demonstrates.
2006-06-07 08:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by Trent 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he answers your call, or returns one for that matter. When he goes out of his way to do stuff for you. When he's a complete gentleman around you. Does he open doors? When he buys you stuff, or pays for the dinners or movie tickets. Has he bought you a present? like a flower or candle. Does he blush when you talk to each other? or stutter? Does he look at you the way you look at him? IF yes; then you know! Good Luck.
2006-06-21 08:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by RX2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are signs but the biggest sign is if you like them and you think or have a feeling that they like you chances are they do but as i said to someone else on here just ask the person plain and simple
2006-06-20 19:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been out of the game for such a long time I wouldnt know. But I think you should come clean and ask him if he feels the same too. what have you got to lose. Good luck with that.
2006-06-20 09:09:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never fails-- If the guy you like talks to you allot , except he NEVER talks with you about his meeting or dating other women, -he likes you.
Bring up his current love life, if he is evassive or vague or especially if he kicks it back to you right away, he digs you....
If he isn't interested in you he might make chicks up just to show signs that he is interested in other women....
2006-06-21 08:43:05 · answer #7 · answered by DQ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually Flirt with her.. I show her all my attention.. if im touchy feely with her then that means im into ya!! So if he calls u all the time/text u all the time, wants to hang out all the time, or if hes really touchy feely with you then those are a few good signs!
2006-06-21 08:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is signs. If he teases you in a nice way. If he kisses you but he said that he didn`t mean to. Stuff like that.
2006-06-20 06:20:18 · answer #9 · answered by angela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will if the guy comes aroud u alot your talks to at lest 1 a day and waves or says hi every time he passis u then he likes u
2006-06-07 08:49:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋