I've been bisexual for as long as I can remember and I know my parents are starting to get suspisious and I'm tired of hiding it. I want to be me and stop pretending to be something else. Can someone please help me with how I can tell them this????
2006-06-07 08:45:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ok. You have to tell them asap. The longer you avoid it, the more suspicious they'll get, and it'll turn into a huge issue. Be upfront about it, but tell them in private. If they really love and care for you, they'll except you for who you are. Or it they'll blame it on themselves, which is definitly not good. They may start to feel like failures as parents, so you have to make sure to tell them everything. Especially that it isn't their fault. If they are upset for a while, that's normal, but eventually they'll realize that it took a lot of courage for you tell them, and they'll be glad you did. If they don't appreciate the fact that you actually told them, make sure you let them know how much courage it took. I'm sure you'll be happier when you tell them. Don't hide it, it's who you are. Good luck!
2006-06-07 09:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by Skater_Gurl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read books and stories about coming out. Maybe you can find them at the library. Get ideas of how other people did it. Your parents probably don't understand what it means. So be prepared to educate and explain. They may make incorrect assumptions (like that you will always want 7 partners or want to have sex with EVERYONE). So you have to be prepared to explain exactly what it means to you. Ask some bi adults to help you. Practice with friendlly teachers or friends have them pretned to be your parents. And you can pretend to be your parents and have your friends pretend to be you and practice that way.
2006-06-07 15:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advise talking to them both and being upfront about it. Don't go into detail about your relationships but do explain to them that this is what you want and you have taken plenty of time to think about it.
Make sure to tell them that you are happy and you hope that they will support you in your decision. Good Luck. If they love you, they will stick by you!
2006-06-07 15:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by sparkling_apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say look Mom and Dad! Ive got a Boyfreind and a Girlfriend and ask if they can come for dinner.
2006-06-07 15:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT its your personal life so whats personal stays personal until ur closet is a bit to full and your stepping out of the biosphere into the homosphere until than its your life enjoy :-)
2006-06-12 11:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by Cure_osity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Jesus,then tell your parents ,ask jesus to come into your life ,dont marry a bisexual and walah .I know your not going to like my answer thats ok:)
2006-06-07 15:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by Liddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to, if you know that there is one thing about being Bi and that is " you can stop it" all Bi s can stop being Bi if they want... so it is not like being gay ... you just have to focus on your normal side... and step out of your comfort zone
Good Luck
2006-06-07 16:28:01 · answer #7 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im 13 and my mom found out about it cuz of sum letterz shse did not except it she made me break up with her and i have been with her for 4 months well thats it if you need n e info reach me jaeleen15blue@yahoo.com
2006-06-08 02:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by BLOO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell them, just have a guy and girl in ur bed and let them walk in on you, no need to talk about it
2006-06-07 15:48:34 · answer #9 · answered by woundshurtless 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not tell them! o my word, i know a girl that told her dad she was bi-sexual, and he beat her up so bad, she had to go to the hospital!
2006-06-09 20:26:01 · answer #10 · answered by dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋