I'm a very shy person when I first meet people...other than that i'm outgoing and a fun person to be around...But when it comes to guys I can't be myself around them because I'm so shy...then once I open up and get comfortable and am able to be myself we just end up being friends! It's something I haven't been able to overcome for years...I've tried believe me. I'm very self conscience about myself...especially my body. I'm just always thinking, do i look ok, am i saying the right things? I just really need to get over this but I've tried everything!
2006-06-07 08:40:18 · 17 answers · asked by enjoyincubus295 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You dont think that you dont have a BF, its just that you did not find a right person for you...but for sure you will,,you will know him when you speak with him for the first time itself...
so dont rush up with the decisions....and you ar perfect and u need not not change anything of yours....just be patient u will find one matching ur likes and tastes and opinion.....may be he is somewhere looking for you......Hope this help
2006-06-07 08:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just go out there and be your self. Let love find you. Take your time. When you meet someone for the first time just slow down and talk to them and get to know them. Just be friends and enjoy being there friend then once you feel like you really know them then ask them out. Just be your self and do what you think is right and do your best. You go GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-07 08:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by swimminglifeguard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is exactly like me. Maybe you can try what I do and start meeting women and being yourself. then Try meeting potential dates and be yourself. I think that you may have a social disorder. No offense. Maybe you shouldn't worry so much. You are fine just the way you are, don't let anyone get into your head.
2006-06-07 08:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by ~Just_Jessica~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should work up your self confidence first. no guys like seeing or being with a girl that thinks very low of herself. start working out to make yourself and body feel better.
Just don't rush the bf thing. I had my first bf when I was 20. A guy will come along, when you least expect it.
2006-06-07 08:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice to this in my opinion is just try to be yourself and about the being self conscience theirs totally nothing wrong with that anybody thats truly into you and that wants to be with you shouldnt be thinking about your body, I really hope it works out for you
2006-06-07 08:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by Jinson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like if u go out and u see someone u like then go up and chat i no its sounds hard but once u do it trust me you will be glad u did......and dont drink beer it will make u goofy and not yr self and u might regret some things u do when yr drunk
2006-06-07 08:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by gone_boy_krazy_9412 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well are you lookin to meet people over the internet or face to face? either way i'm cool if u wanna meet.
2006-06-07 08:44:16 · answer #7 · answered by Izzo_3x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
word of advice, DON'T IM BAD_LUCKS_THE_NAME!!!!!!!! he's a total scum bag sleez ball loser! sick little boy!
and... don't worry, you are still so young, and i'm sure the right guy, when you find each other, he will be lucky to have you!
2006-06-07 09:05:48 · answer #8 · answered by smartguytrustme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chat it out with unknown guys on the net. be bitchy in your conversations
that wud help in getting away your shy ness
and do masturbate
2006-06-07 08:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by rebel_ayush 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow thats IS sad! u need to get one and soon be4 its too late!
2006-06-07 08:45:51 · answer #10 · answered by ~luvable~ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋