2006-06-07 08:29:43 · 15 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No that does not bother some guys but to others it does. It does not bother me any. As long as the girl likes me for me and not who I want to be. And if she loves me than thats cool with me.
2006-06-07 08:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by swimminglifeguard 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO... would rather someone like sex for its own sake and especailly with me rather then somone doing me a favour or duty.
It depends on your age too. Helps it you are at similar level of experience so you want to try the same things ... not one is bored of it as been there, done that 100 times and you have not.
Or you can't relate to each other as one has not even kissed and the other been married, lived togther, etc.
Plus its selfish to for a guy to have slept around and done everything then get all upset if the girl has done the same.
Personally I would not mind ie new girlfriend had been a pole dancer if she had fun doing it. Id just by a pole and get some popcorn.
Also a virgin is more likley to be tense and stressed when doing it... would be more fun if both having fun...
Though it would be cool to be someone s first time if you could make it specail for them and not ruin it for them.
There is nothing ethical about being a virgin or immoral about not being one.
Morality is how you treat others in relation to how they treat you and others.
ie do unto others as you would have them do unto you or as long as it harms none do as you will....
2006-06-07 18:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by Joey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a good question,anyway ,in some part of world men value a virgin girl ,most expecially the girl you intend to marry,then it was a joy of a man to meet his wife virgin,but nowadays things have change most expecially in this mordern world ,when many girl have do abortion in there early stage.
Though,to me ,all what we are saying is love,if you love any girl ,you won't compromise may is virgin or not because you love her.
2006-06-07 15:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by roymark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I was a virgin when I met my fiance and he loved it, it felt more like I waited for him and that I'm very serious about him and trusted him to be my first. I think most guys would find it a bit of a treat!
2006-06-07 16:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by floppity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, infact I find it quite a turn on, my ex was a virgin until we did the deed, and now she is my ex she'll always remember me as being her first!!
2006-06-07 15:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by hammersfan_23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not bothered, but worried perhaps that you dont have the skills needed to take care of business. If you present yourself as ready and willing to please your man any way he wants then things should be okay...
2006-06-07 15:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Not at all. I only like virgins (Since I'm).
2006-06-07 17:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bothered? are you kidding?
a virgin gal is sooooo hot
2006-06-07 15:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by Mohammad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its good if they have had it
atleast they are aware of doing it in style
2006-06-07 15:52:41 · answer #9 · answered by rebel_ayush 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, why you want to go out?
2006-06-07 15:33:46 · answer #10 · answered by Darby L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋