I like this guy but hes not christian I want to invite him to church but for some reason I keep hesitating. Do you think I should?
2006-06-07 08:28:18 · 23 answers · asked by Shygirl 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Yes, just ask if he'd like to come along, God wants us to invite people to church, its part of being a Christian, and don't be shy about it, he can either say yes or no and explain why. At least you tried, you'll feel better for doing so.
2006-06-07 08:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by bryton1001 4 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Yes, I think you should invite him to the church to see his reaction. It is better than not not knowing his thought about Christianity if you don't invite him. You should thereafter decide if he is the one you wish to spend the rest of your life with or find out how long he would last with you. Your conscious will reveal this information to you. Don't make hasty decision and regret it the rest of your life. I think you also should consult an older man before you decide if he is the one you love or he is onely a guy passing by to be of no meaning to your life later on.
2006-06-07 15:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by lonelyspirit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him to church, if he is not a Christian, perhaps he will become interested. But do not look at him as a boyfriend or make the mistake of thinking he'll change later. God most definately does not want you to yoke yourself to an unbeliever! Don't put yourself in the way of falling in love with someone who is an unbeliever.
2006-06-07 15:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by Grandma Susie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably just a case of nerves. Sure, I think you should ask him. He may not be a christian now, but if starts going to church with you he could very well decide to become one... What have you got to lose? Ask him, I think you will be glad you did, know matter the out come...:)
2006-06-07 15:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by BlueAngel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him to youth group, bible study, or church. Whatever part of the service you find is the most relaxed and open to newcomers, invite him to.
2006-06-07 15:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by teeney1116 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him to church. But don't go further than friendhip if he doesn't become a Christian....thats what I'd do, personally....everyone's different.
2006-06-07 15:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by ac28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst he could say is "no" -- you didn't say if he was Jewish or an athiest or anything? Some people like to experience different churches. Or he may not want to go period.
2006-06-07 15:32:00 · answer #7 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, mention you go to church and let him invite himself if he's interested. If he's not interested, respect that.
2006-06-07 15:30:36 · answer #8 · answered by Hillbillies are... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should invite him if you have the notion of converting him. However, if you're doing it just to do something together, I think it's a great idea.
If he is open-minded enough to go with you, you should be prepared to be open-minded with his beliefs, as well.
Good luck!
2006-06-07 15:38:31 · answer #9 · answered by Joa5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come right out and ask him to consider accompanying you to church one day soon no pressure.
2006-06-07 16:54:47 · answer #10 · answered by LeeChue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋