or feel if u found out ur x gf got raped? u didnt love her but u cared for her? would u be turned off and look down on her for getting herself in that situation? or wanna b there for her and care more about her? weird question i know but my friend is going through it and wants to tell her x bf
2006-06-07 08:12:07 · 7 answers · asked by laughalot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go and find out how she's doing. She needs as much assurance and caring as possible. Just like in the recent movie 'War of the the Worlds', only here it's a socially accepted 'divorce'. I believe that an ex-girlfriend is still a human after all. Of course, if the spark wasn't there in the previous relationship, it won't be there a second time either, so a reunion is out of the question.
2006-06-07 08:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by TNT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely wanna be there for her and care more about her. I would do anything to help her get through the bad situation. I would be by her side as long as she needs me.
2006-06-07 15:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by Rodney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be supportive if that's what you feel, if not don't look down on her for her mistake, just don't say or mention anything about her and her situation. If you don't care, don't get involved with it. Leave her to he own devices. She will have enough to deal with at this traumatic time.
2006-06-07 15:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by brooklynbornson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are still friends, then he should be there to support her through this...it is an awful thing and more concerning is your comment about "getting herself in that situation"...rape is an act of violence that is not her fault...i would be more concerned about getting her counseling then what her ex boyfriend may do or think
2006-06-07 15:20:24 · answer #4 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should just drop her a note and say "If you need anything give just me a call." She most likely will not call, but it will make her feel better any way.
2006-06-07 15:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by Sabersquirrel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man gotta do what a man gotta do, go with your heart dude and dont care about what other people say/said
2006-06-07 15:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jubei 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not her fault if she was raped! unless she ran around naked! or was wearing something bad in a bad place to be!
2006-06-07 15:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋