My brother's bestfriend likes me, and he is sooooo cute. He asked me out, but I said I don't know because I don't want to ruin their friendship. I've known him for as long as my brothers known him (7 years). My brother caught me on the phone with him, and is not talking to him now. HELP!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-07 08:10:13 · 42 answers · asked by chrisbrownsbabymomma4life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talke to your brother first and then go for it.
2006-06-07 08:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by stmmay87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. If it meant to be then your brother will accept it. The only thing is guys like to talk about the ladies they are with so the boyfriend could not share his ideas to your brother. so there will definitely be some changes in there relationship. It all depends how your relationship is with your brother. Can you talk to your brother about how you feel? Hopefully your brother would want you to be happy since you are his family.
2006-06-17 15:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by tannya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that,that is stupidity on your brother's part! If he feels that this guy is not good for you then he should tell the guy to leave you alone and explain to you why he doesn't want you to get involved with him. But if this guy is a very nice guy ,I would think that your brother would not have a problem with the two of you dating each other, because he knows him very well and he is a good guy for you to date!
2006-06-21 04:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your brother gets upset, forget him.
If you and the bestfriend want to go out, then go out. Your brother should not put any conditions on you two going on.
It is just a date. No more, no less.
The only reason your brother might have problems is if he knows something about the bestfriend that might hurt you like he is only looking for sex or something like that.
2006-06-21 07:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by javarick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Talk to your brother, tell him that he shouldn't stop talking to his bestfriend just because he likes you.
2. Tell him that he got nothing to loose when you go out with him.
3. He's your brother and he should know what's best for you.
4. Just go out with that cute guy, ask him if he's mad about your brother ignoring him. If he doesn't mind and still happy, then go ahead and date him
Good luck
2006-06-21 05:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by DBSK LOVER! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Likely to be a fad which will pass away after u have had sex for some time and realise that being in a serious relationship is so different from being friends. By which time I don't think he and your brother will be talking...Is it really worth it - do u really think it will work? Do u see yourselves getting married and living happily ever after - if not back off!
2006-06-20 22:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by jayzgone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cute is not a good reason to go out with someone. You were to wishi-washi with this guy and he is going to pursue you until he gets you. There are plenty of guys who aren't in your brothers circle of friends that are better than this guy for dating. Find someone your age... this guy wasn't that great a friend to your brother is he's hitting on you - that speaks to his character of lack of character. Why would you want to be with a guy like that in the first place. Avoid this guy, he's no good.
2006-06-17 09:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For now I would remain friends with him and after you talkwith your brother ask for his input this being his friend and all, then see what happens perhaps a casual date and take thing's slow from there. This way everyone knows that the friendships amongst your brother and his friend and his friend and you can all remain in contact.
)o( Goddess Bless )o(
2006-06-21 07:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by alone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember you could lose your boyfriend a potential friend and your reputation. Most guys will forgive their friend-but not their girlfriend. Your boyfriend's friend is not a real friend to him to be interested in you- so what makes you think he will be friend to you. If this were reversed you would not want your best girl to hit on your guy and your guy accept her advances. Stay away from this guy as much a possible if you value your boyfriend. If your boyfriend is not worth it and you feel the other guy is for you then go for it, but break it off with the first guy before you see his friend and proceed with caution. Think this through carefulllllllllllllyyyyyyy!
2006-06-21 04:48:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!!! My sister went out with my brother's life long best friend for about 3 months and then they broke up. My brother and his friend have not spoken since. Blood is thicker than water. Respect your brother!
2006-06-20 05:11:09 · answer #10 · answered by Mamadog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not "go for it"
Not if you value your brother, and his friendship.
Just because a guy is "soooooo cute" doesn't mean you should
ruin your brothers friendship.
There are plenty of guys out there.
2006-06-07 08:31:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋