my girlfriend says she would never cheat on me,we plan to stay together for as long as we can, maybe even marry later on,We're young, im 18,if im her first (sexually), wont she eventually cheat?i mean i cant be her first and only?anybody ever heard of that happening?any personal experiences?i trust her, but it almost seems impossible, especially now adays, dont people eventually want to try someone new?....plz help
2006-06-07 08:00:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, its possible for you to be her one and only, it all depends on her values and morals she has set for herself, just because you'd be her first doesnt mean she'd stray trust her judgement because she knows what is best for her, i know a woman who is 47 years old and her husband was the only person she's ever been with, she never felt any reason to stray or experience another person, she loves him with all her heart and they have a marriage built on love and trust and they are still happily married to this day
2006-06-07 08:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its possible. I agree, it is rarely seen, or heard of in these times, but that shouldn't stop one from trying. I'm planning on waiting until marriage, so that would definately assure a first and only. I know plenty of people that are doing the same thing, alot of guys even. Its really up to your girlfriend, if she really loves you, then why should she cheat? She would be happy to be with you. Like everyones been saying-trust her. Love never fails.
2006-06-07 08:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by lettuceisgreen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're truly in love it wont matter. but keep in mind it's hard to stay together when you are so young. Your personality and what you want out of life changes so much at that age. I started dating my ex at 18 and we made it all the way to 24. People can just grow apart.
Good luck & enjoy the time you are together now. DOn't wast time worrying about the future, it won't change anything.
2006-06-07 08:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like me and my boyfriend we been together for almost 7 years this summer and I never cheated on him he was my first. I dont think he cheated on me but I had the same question as you I would say your a guy and there are alot of pretty girls and so on. we broke up about 2 years ago because he was talking to other girls and lying to me and I thought after 5 years you need to grow up cut this girls lose it wasnt like it was old friends these were new girl that would get his number it made me sick we broke up. I started talk to some other guy we had sex it hurt my boyfriend and I wish I could take it all back because I did it because I thought he was cheating even though he say he wasnt. but I dont think she would if she loves you because its nothing but another guy its the same to me far as sex just another guy. so you should trust her
2006-06-07 08:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by chimia112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin when I had sex with my current gf and thats how I feel. We talk about never separating and eventually getting married...The only problem is that where only 16 and her 17. I myself do get tempted to cheat on her and having sex with someone new, but my love for her always wins me over...
2006-06-07 08:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by bad2bone2212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not any such ingredient as non-existence, by ability of definition. The time period is used in straightforward words compared to existence, even with the undeniable fact that it ability no longer something by ability of itself. Our information survives lack of existence, in basic terms because it preceded start. the reason we gained't understand non-existence is that there is not any such ingredient, in basic terms as there is not any such ingredient as unconsciousness. no longer remembering a era of information does no longer recommend that we were no longer unsleeping on the time. we are always unsleeping in some unspecified time sooner or later.
2016-12-06 11:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well listen here. i was a virgin when i met my man. he was too. i know this becasue he had a very personal relationship with his mom and told her everything about him not wanting to have sex until he found the one. he lied to his friends and said he did have sex so they wouldn't think he was a wimp or whatever. i was 17 and he was 18 when we first had sex. we had been together for 2 months. we knew we loved eachother. today we are both 21 and still are faithful to one another and are engaged and planning our wedding.
2006-06-07 08:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wanting to try doesn't necessacarily mean they will try it with someone new.
a first and only can happen and it's not as uncommon as it seems.
just be honest, and if it comes to the point that you think she want to try someone new but you know that she loves you and ultimately wants to be with you, pehaps times like this call for a threesome....
now thats not an answer to deep emotional issues... but being adventuus with her could keep her around.
2006-06-07 08:04:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust what she is telling you- it is very possible that you will be the only one she is with. Not everyone cheats- my soon to be husband will be my one and only.
2006-06-07 08:10:28 · answer #9 · answered by littlefoot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely believe it's possible not to want to have sex with anyone but the one you're with- trust her until she gives you a reason not to.
2006-06-07 08:05:43 · answer #10 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋